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  1. 4/5th Day. Not coping very well, Been reading alot of threads, G.I.G.S etc, for some hope, the more i read into things, the better, and worse i feel. Strange really. Times a killer for me, but i have to wait it out... Question though... Her rebound sent his ex a message, saying she was the one, and he wouldnt let anything happen to her, He kissed his ex when she breifly split from her boyfriend... Hes pretty much a womanising man * * * * * ... The phrase, once a cheat always a cheat? Is that true? Is he likely to drift again?
  2. Finally something i can work with! I must admit, ive been poking the fire the last day or 2, writing subtle things that i knew would make her respond, my cats missing, i made a cheesy missing poster and put it on facebook, she sent me messages asking which one it was, and that she loves him... it made me feel better knowing she responded to it, but i guess if im making subtle hints , thats sort of cheating NC. no more, im gonna be oblivious to her Edit : thank you
  3. I want your opinion, Ex leaves for rebound, comes back for a few days, goes back to rebound (supercut down version) will she come back again? And she seems to be going out pretty much every night, because as shes said, when shes on her own she thinks too much. But when she goes out, she invites as many people as she can to come with her and her ex, do you think theres a reason to that? Im thinking she came back to me briefly to find out my feelings, then play on that to keep me as her safety net?
  4. Day 3, im that desperate i read my horoscope for advice! Apparently if i stick to a plan, it will work. Who knows !
  5. no, but you can read text messages, you dont have to respond though. I didnt delete my ex from facebook. Shes blabbing to the world about how much she loves this new guy, even though the whole town hates his guts, and new rumours come out every week about what hes upto when shes not around. Shes making herself look like a fool, the first time it worked, she didnt really try and talk to me to begin with, but after about 2 weeks, every day she would send me a message, asking about something irrelivent, then join numerous facebook groups, I love my bf, etc etc, and post new status's whenever i didnt respond. I know most people say delete all means, but when she did all that stuff, it made me feel better, and after about a month she told me to meet up, and how she felt etc etc.
  6. It worked with me once, i let her back in too quickly, and her heads messed up. They have your number, email if they want to contact you. The whole reason of NC isnt just to get them back, its easier for you to get over them. people cant miss you if you dont go, so going NC usually means they start to miss what they had, it took a month for me the first time. Im praying it works again, ill handle it better
  7. Day 1, again. I broke it after she compared me to her new boyfriend. Apparently, being slightly clingy, is just as bad as him cheating on her, treating her like crap.... i dont think so. I told her the new her isnt the person i fell in love with, and ill only be able to forgive her if she ever changes back.. Probably a bad move, but tbh, i dont want to be with the new her. NC again, hopefully she changes. I think its a waiting game for me really
  8. Day 3, really starting to doubt weather its going to work again in the same way
  9. Day 2, NC worked once, Im hoping it works in the same way Take 2 with the same person. I hope it works twice !
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