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Day 3, heard more * * * * from random people i dont know, about how they were argueing non stop, and he went home and trashed his room infront of her... What the ... Like you bitebenot, im pissed at her, but at what shes doing to herself now, not what she did to me. Dont really get it. Thing is, i recon she'll be back in a few weeks. But how am i ever supposed to trust her again. Hate these mood swings
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I didnt , i dont plan to respond to anything, even "I want you back". Two chances is more than enough.
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Thanks. Its bloody hard for a decent guy to find a relationship in this country at this age..
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Thanks, not gonna be easy, im obessing that shes not coming back, because of other peoples actions not her own, shes turned into a very weak person, and shes too preocupied on other peoples opinions. Cant believe she asked me to wait while shes off with someone else.. Always going to think, what if..
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Thanks, just a pain in the arse theres always going to be that what if factor, keep away from people who are too preocupied in what others think about them, rather then doing what they want. Atleast im young, and leart alot of lessons. Just hope it doesnt effect my trusting nature with other people.
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Day 1, after the events that happened last night ( see my thread ) nothings going to happen between us again Time to start healing, for the 3rd time.
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day 6. just broke it when i met up with her, started with a sorta argument/conversation. Ended with her going home, and telling her rebound she doesnt want a relationship at the moment. Found out she didnt come back at xmas, because she was scared my friends would stop talking to me if i took her back. Told her im going NC until shes completely made up her mind about what shes doing. Guess ill see what develops. Always happens just as im moving on
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I have to agree, how ever, a month or two is normally the amount of time until you start considering new options. Dont put a time frame on your self though, it takes aslong as it takes. Keep your mind busy. An idle mind strays to issues of the heart.
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Dont start self pity, its the worst thing you can do, i did the same, made things worse. Do something you can focus on, redecorate your room, do some painting, shoppings good therapy right?
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Day 5! would be 12 but i broke it when i saw her rebound out with another girl... Then i got it in the neck, deleted her from facebook, and told her i dont want to know the person she'd become. I did also say, if you ever change back, then get in touch.. i left the door open slightly i think.. lol Chatting to a new girl now, for about 4 days, met her once at new years with my mates, wasnt really in the mood that night though, seeing as it would have been my anniversary with my ex. Ohwell, im still sorta hoping she comes back, but im not sure how id react if she did. But i do really hope something develops with this new girl, i mean, i told her i had a crush, and she hasnt run off yet. Good signs. Still miss all the great memories, and all the little things still remind me of her, but there not getting me down anymore, Its not like i dont care, but im accepting that shes changed from the person i love, and i dont like whos shes become at all, so i guess its easier in that sense, but its a tragedy the worlds lost a person like her, and shes just turned into someone with such low respect for herself and others. Shes getting played. She'll realise one day, i just hope she does soon.
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I told my ex why i was, i didnt give an end to when id stop NC if you can do 30 days, then by the end of it, dont just break NC because youve completed the challenge, keep with it if its doing its job
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You dont know what you want, but you've figured out what you want to do to achieve either of them. You cant choose the outcome, but you seem fine with either? So dont focus on what the outcome is, what evers gonna happen, will happen, just focus on your self until you get one of them. Its early days, It does get better with time
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Good luck mate, remember, only you actually know what this girls like, so make your own judgement on weather or not to break it
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It started with, "whats going on with the flat" we shared one together, id told her exactly what i was doing with it, changed to "dont go dancing with any other girls, ill get jelous" then she started telling my freinds how she missed me, and that her new bf was treating her badly. that was the first time i broke NC, she started crying, saying how she was second best, i comforted her, she said she wasnt sure why she was with him still, but didnt do anything about it so i went straight back to NC, she acted like nothing happened. Then she started the same cycle again, the flat, my friends, my family. Eventually, after 3 weeks she said she overdosed on birth control pills, i broke NC again, went and met her mum to see if it was true, turned out it wasnt. Went straight back to NC. After that it came to xmas eve when we met up. Just be carefull what you respond to, but from my experience, it was all just a plot to get me to talk to her, i guess she has a big ego! She blocked me from facebook yesterday, and added me straight back. I declined.
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because its getting to her. she hates that she has no control over the situation. stick at it, your doing well! soon she'll probably start with saying stupid things to force you into responding.. my experience anyway.
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Ego, wanting to make amends, feeling bad for what they've done to someone. Having them in the picture still, knowing how they feel, its like having a safety net. And when there upset, if the ex is still a friend, they can pin the problems on them, instead of the rebound having to help with the negatives of a relationship.
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Day 6 aswell! going out tonight, hopefully ill bump into this girl ive been talking to recently!
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Day 4, things startin to pick up!
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Yea but i dont see what her goal is. day 3. Feeling alright. Still dont feel a need to ever break nc this time.
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Why does she need power over me, when shes now with someone else. More and more of her friends are starting to add me now, starting to get annoying
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I know shes playin alot of games, but dont understand why, she knows exactly where i stand, and didnt seem too bothered that i wasnt going to speak to her again
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Day 2, i dont get this girl, she used her friends facebook account to comment on my status, about thinking about moving to go to uni. My schoolmate, who works with her said he was thinking the same, She says " your not allowed to leave because its illegal to leave me behind. What??
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Thank you, i know a few people are givin you a hard time, but the advice youve given me has been great. I think its going to be easier to stick to NC this time, i dont really feel like theres anything else i can say, The new guy doesnt compare to me on any level, which makes everything even more confusing, but i guess after the honeymoon period ends with them, thats going to come to my advantage
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Yea its in that thread i posted
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Broke it... Time to start again. No reason to break it again now. Feel annoyed that i broke it, was starting to do better. Day 1.