martyhopkirk

Hi Everyone I have wrote of this before, but I would still like some feedback as to this situation, it seems to change by the week, or at least what I am told changes !!!!. I have been in a long distance cyber relationship for almost a year, we have chatted, webcam'ed, gifts , cards, and we both pledged our love for each other, she could not travel to the UK to visit me because of her job/kids/situation. I was unable to give her a certain date for me to visit the US ( Job/ situation etc) but promised I would visit....that visit is due in 6 weeks.....she now tells me their is someone else,has been for 3 months and she has feelings for him, and is spending time with him.......but she says she loves me and still wants me to visit. Confused YOU BET I AM Should I travel 1000s of miles .....to see what happens.....and risk further heartache or end it quietly now.....not ever holding her in my arms......I am hurting so much.....please tell me what you think I should do......Thanks for reading this marty

Hello Wuddle You sound so genuine by your post here, I'm sure that he is interested in you, not what material things you may or may not have. After 3 years contact you finally get to embrace !.....I hope you both find what you hoping for, Don't worry....I'm sure he is genuine, just take it as it comes...........Best wishes.....Marty

Hello Everyone, This is my first post, I have looked around as a guest for a while now but I need to know what you think of my situation. I have been in a internet relationship ( between UK and USA )since late last year, we have talked for hours, webcam, cards, gifts, etc etc, I promised that I would visit early this year but decided against it ( I am still in a loveless marriage, and we are separated, living apart). she is going thru a divorce at the moment, ..she told me tonight that there has been someone else, albeit briefly.... because she needed someone real, he has gone now, she says he will not be coming back, I feel devastated by this, I have assured her that I love her, and want us to be together but I am frightened that I will lose her, this woman is like no-one I have ever known before, she is everything I ever wanted, and never had. She assures me that she never stopped loving me, and wants me, but I don't know if I can handle this much hurt inside, I love her so much, Am I right or wrong in hoping this will work......Please help , Your thoughts please. Thankyou for taking the time to read this...... Marty