AnimeFan

I know how you feel. I've been in several long distance relationships. You have to be able to talk a lot for them to work. My old highschool band director has said many words of wisdom, one being "We make time for what we WANT to make time for" It sounds to me like he's pushing you out of his life and your relationship has gotten one sided. I understand if he's busy, but any guy can stay awake a few minutes to write an E-mail or call. You can't always assume the worst in these situations, yet you can't be sure that nothing is going on. If you are sure you can trust him, tell him that you are upset and give him another chance to make more of an effort. tell him he needs to talk to you more. The fact that he doesn't have time for you is BS. Don't believe it. if he keeps insisting on that, then there's something else bothering him and he's just trying to make excuses. Just do what you feel is right in your heart. One can only be ignored for so long.

I met a girl on the internet about 4 or 5 years ago on ICQ random chat. she only lived like 30 miles from me. it wasn't until 3 years ago that we decided to meet. we dated on and off, no more than a few months at a time. She was very shy and didn't let me close, so I thought she didn't like me, which is why we never dated for very long at a time. I dated a few others on our breaks...nothing really serious, but I seemed to always come back to her. Then in February of this year, we started dating again. this time she is more open to me and lets me closer...I even got a kiss once! I've come to realize that I'm falling in love with her, but sometimes I'm just not sure if she loves me. This time around we've only been seriously daing for a few months and I don't want to scare her or make things move to fast, but at the same time I just want to tell her I love her. It's getting frustrating, and I'm not sure how she'd respond...I don't think she loves me, but then sometimes I get little signs, like a smile or just how she looks...I don't know what to do.