marylandboi17

i have alot of friends, and alot of them have issues that sometime they dont wish to talk about. i dont force them into telling me, but i wish i could help them somehow, cause talkin it out may be the solution. sometimes i tell them whatever is wrong just follow your heart..but i dont know. is there another way i could help them without knowing what is wrong? or helping me find out?

it was during the 9th grade and we had gone out for about 10 months, i had never had a tru girlfriend before that and i had known it was love between us two.she was the first person to mention she loved me but i had no idea what love was till it was over. its been a year now ever since our break up and she had told me when we first talked that she regret dumping me cause she says she will never find another guy like me. i treated her like my wife, and i guess it wosent enough. she moved to another state we now talk on and off, but when we do she wishes we were back together, i dnt want to get hurt agin so i dont know if i should hive in or no!! HELP!

i have just moved to a bording school up in canada and i have met alot of friends including this one gurl! i dont even know how we met but all i know is it just clicked and i never saw her as nuthin but a friend! 5 months into the school year i had started to like her. i flirted and spent time with her anytime i got! but never told her that i liked her because i was afraid of the consequenses of loosing her a friend if i did. so i went on throughout the entire year being nuthin but her friend and bottiling all of the feelings i had for her inside! som people caught on that i liked her but she always seemed to flrit with me too, but i dont know..she kinda does it alot but sometimes i sense that she does it to me on purpose and not accedent! i just dont want to make a mistake! i dont knkow what to do and the new year is coming up and i still like her alot! we have talked a couple time bout our relationship, and i have snuck in about what if we went out! she said i could find someone so much better than her..and she wanted to change the subject! SHOULD I TELL HER OR NO!! IM IN PAIN!!