santamadia

Wow, thank you all for your support and Winkie, thank you for your other point of view which i must say is kinda how i truly feel. I have already toldhim I need help and he told me to stuff it I also agree with the rest of you cool people that i made this happen by running him down with my insecurities...so now what?

LISTEN, This guy is using her...at best. He feels justified because you stole her away. But this isnt a candy store, can you really steal away what really belongs to someone else. No! She is being fooled by him, and he is using her to get back at her and you for what he went through when she left him for you. Give her some space and time, she will return to you. I would also confront him and tell him about his sneaky self. When they were dating that was one thing...BUT YOU TWO ARE MARRIED, and the LORD says "May no man Covet thy neighbors wife" . Give him the boot and tell her the truth that he is only using her as a rebound. He sounds like a slimeball. She just can't see it . To tell you the truth she probably feels like she owes him some kind of second chance.

HELLO ALL, MY NAME IS SANTA, AND ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAVE BEEN GOING TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 8 MONTHS. I HAVE BEEN MORE THEN KIND TO HIM AND THERE IS ONLY ONE BIG PROBLEM. I'M JEALOUS AND VERY INSECURE. I USED TO ACCUSE HIM SO MUCH OF CHEATING THAT NOW...EVEN THOUGH HE HAS NEVER CHEATED ON ME, HE IS TREATING ME BADLY AND BLAMES EVERY THING ON ME. ME Me and him have been through nothing but fighting this whole time...nothing but arguing. last night i tried to tell him how i felt and cried and all he did was point the finger on me. He told me i was a piece of coal and that he was waiting for me to turn into a diamond. "with your insecure a##" Help