mrblond

now me lady split with me after two years, now two months down the lane, there has been little contact, she has contacted me a few times, call, email/txt saying hello how are you etc and i do a polite reply if needed with a positive reply or if no reply needed then i dont reply. I see the idea of NC and ok in reality you never know whether that person will ever get back with you or not or in time whether you would want too, if it ever happens it has to be a fresh start and that person sees a better you and what ever ended the relationship before has been sorted out. Thats my question, after doing alot of reflecting etc, i know that the main reason for my ex splitting with me was due to me not dealing with an issue that came into our relationship and as time went on, our closeness etc faded and even though she loved me, she couldnt continue with the situation and looking back, yes she was right to end our relationship. Anyway, the thing is because i can see all this now, is it wrong of me to write a letter to her? not asking her back at all, but simply saying I am sorry for the part i played in the break up, taking responsibility of my actions and i have learned from my mistakes so thereforee improving myself, a better me. She would see i am taking responsibility and making myself better. How does this fit within NC

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a quick question, been reading lots on this NC thing and probably wished i had seen it all two months ago.(we were together over 2yrs) Anyway apart from the initial try to get my lady back when we did split, i have been very good, i havent contacted her, but she has sent me the odd text email and if she asked how am i , i simply reply "i am doing very well thanks" if there was no reason to reply i wouldnt. I know they say if you do nothing then you cant do no wrong however, the thing is time has gone on and i have reflected on things and unfort the reason well main reason for us splitting was due to me not dealing with issues that came into our relationship. We didnt have a big heart to heart before it ended, I wont go into all details now. But even with this NC thing, is it wrong to write a letter ? accepting that she did the right thing and i take responsibility for the part i played in the break up. This letter wont be implying i want her back just acknowledging my part. Yours thoughts as to whether this is a good thing or not ?