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Thanks for all the advice, it is great. I told him I will make him go to the gym and he's like yeah right I am not going. It's hard not to want someone with not just a great personality but a good appearance too especially since I workout. I guess I need to see him first and then judge.

Tell yourself that there is someone much better out there for you, someone who will never hurt you or make you cry. Be really positive, don't let it show that you are hurting. Guys love when girls can smile through any circumstances. Get busy with other things like join a club or take some sort of lessons, fill your day with many exciting things to do and before you know it you won't think about him, you won't have any time.

I have been talking to a guy(Ryan) on the net/phone for over a month. I know his cousins and well he's a pretty great guy. I talk to him every day. Our shortest conversation was an hour over the phone. Ryan is just so interesting to talk too. I can never possibly get bored of him. He does not mind if I act silly or dumb. Always compliments me, we even have talked about going out. I have never seen what he looks like, but he has seen many pictures of me. I am a really athletic girl, I workout and like to look good. Sometimes when we talk he will tell me that once I see him I won't like him anymore. Other times he will tell me that he is fat or thinks he is fat. I don't know if he is or not, maybe he is joking but honestly I hope he has a good body. I am sorry I cannot help it, I am attracted to a good strong body. I workout every day at the gym and I need someone athletic. I really don't want to ruin our great friendship but sometimes I am worried that what if he is maybe overweight. Our friendship is really awesome, I look forward to hearing from him every day. But I just cannot see myself with someone a little on the fat side. I am sorry. What should I do?