cracklepop

i agree with everyone else...i suggest you save yourself time and save your energy for another girl who will give you all the attention in the world...just remember that girls like to play hard to get....if a girl really had interest for you, she'd show you little signs...don't put all your eggs in one basket....learn how to show a girl that you like them but at the same time show them that you don't.....don't spend too much time on one girl...spend most of your time with a few girls...what i mean by this is to show your interest for a variety of girls and once one of them tugs on your hook, then you focus on that one and slowly reel her in....there's too many fish in the pond to be just using one hook and one bait, be the smart fisherman and use mutiple hooks and multiple bait..who knows how many you'll catch.....

i say if he's the guy you were meant to be with...just like bryan said..he'll give you all the time in the world...just to test him out, i would say make him wait for a while and see if he is patient enough..otherwise, i don't think he wants you, i think he only wants you know what unless that's what you're lookin for...if he doesn't have the patience, i can already tell you that you guys won't last too long if you were to get back officially together because all he probably wants is a piece of what's under your pants...so just make him wait a 'lil...

Sigh...well...there's this girl whom i went to high school with...we knew each other but we never really hung out in high school...we're both in our 3rd and 4th year in college and recently been hanging out lately together thru a mutual friend of ours...she's probably the most beautiful girl both inside and out that I have known...i've always thought she was a cutie ever since high school, but only til recently hangin out with her did i begin to realize that she's someone i would really like to get to know better and hopefully be my girlfriend Like most girls who are very pretty physically and personality-wise..you'll have to compete with several other guys that are on her jock...i'm not the best looking guy she probably knows, but I know all there is to be a true gentleman...i think the problem that i'm trying to solve is how to get with a girl like her...the slight drawback is that she was with her last bf for about 6 yrs, but they've been broken up for about a year now...i hang out with her, and we joke around when with our other friends on tryin' to hook her up..and she talks about guys that she thinks are cute...she doesn't talk much about her ex-bf, but of course she probably wouldn't disclose stuff liek that but only to her closest friends...after observing this..i'm assuming she appears to be ready to pursue another relationship... it's been a while since i've dated because i've been focusing on school and getting my life straight...i've learned that you are who you attract and that is why i have been workin' on myself both physically and mentally...i feel it's time for me to get back into the dating scene and find someone whom i can be with for a long time and not just it be a summer fling..friends who i talk to tell me to just be a friend for now..be a good listener..try and carry good conversations with her..and try to take her out to lunch or dinner... when you have a crush for a girl...it is hard to control yourself, and you always have this urge to talk to her..call her..e-mail her..chat on AIM with her...for some reason i have an easier time giving advice to my friends, but when the spotlight's on me, i have a difficult time...it's like I get up from my seat, but my mind sits down when it comes to dealing with girls myself...because she's one of those pretty girls, i know for a fact that she has the ball and there are tons of guys, including me, trying to steal the ball away from her..but because of her beauty...she has the choice on whom to pass the ball too which sucks real bad for us guys...the hardest part for me in a relationship is the part of telling the girl you like her for the very first time..but once i know i have her...it's pretty much downhill for me..i know what needs to be done to maintain a relationship...this girl that i have a mad crush on has built a really high wall for me to climb, and right now i'm strugglin' to figure out a way to get over it.. so I'm not sure when to do what...do i take her out to lunch first..do i call her on the phone first.....and other stuff like that..i need know to know all there is to know to get this girl to like me...help!? tips on what to talk about in a conversation over the phone or in person? how to flirt? to what point should i be nice to show her that i like her but not scare her away? (if ya need to see a pic of her, she's on my website, just click on WWW below...she's the chic that looks like michelle branch)