hi everyone, i am new to this and have yet to learn how this actually works. yet i would appreciate some help.....
to say that i have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months now i can say with my heart that i love him, and feelings returned. but he does lack in one aspect; i love a man to talk dirty to me and this is where he feels intimmidated! this may be because he is older than me but i felt that we had got past that stage. age shouldnt matter.
this is where his best mate fits the bill.....
he has always been a good mate and easy to talk to, both him and my boyfriend think the world of each other. yet he is DIRTY MINDED! and i love it, i seem to be more intimate with him than my boyfriend, im dont feel that i am doing anything wrong, by talking both on the phone and net dirty!
at times i do feel guilty, how would you approach this subject, now that the best mate wants to be more than just 'dirty minded' friends???
i didnt expect him to come on to me, just talk.
i guess he was provoked. do you think?