silly_me

Hey, I know exactly how you feel! Although I was never over seas and away from my guy, I felt the same way. I met him off the internet, and before I met him in person I was starting to have serious feelings for him. We were dating for about a month before he finally told me that he didn't want to date me anymore, his reason was bc he didn't want anything serious, and I was very much attached, but the same sort of thing went on, he was the sweetest guy i've ever known.. Maybe your guy just needs some space for himself for a bit, but really is interested in you. Sometimes, guys are just strange like that, .. or maybe what seems like lame excuses sometimes is just the honest truth, I've been accused of such myself and had no intentions of hurting anybody. So maybe a call or 2 every week or so might be enough, just so he knows you are still intersted, but not over bearing. Ask him how he feels, the worst that can really hapen is that he is not interested in dating you right now. At lest you wont be losing the chance for a great friendship... I took the chance, and it turned out great! Best of luck, darlin! (Go for the man!)

I hooked up with mybest friends older cousin a few weeks ago, and our relationship hasn't been the same since. He use to go to my friends house everyday, and usually sleepover, and I'd see him him everyday, and rarely went without talking to him. I felt so bad about the thought that he might even be interested in me bc my best friend didn't want anything to happen between us. When invited me to his apartment, things started to heat up a bit, and I ended up giving him head. He has only been to my friends house once since it happened, and has only talked to me twice. My best friends whole family knows about our "relationship" and I dont know hpw to tell him that although I'm not looking for anything serious right now, I really would like to become more of a frined of his, rather than just a friend of his cousins.. PLZ give me some feedback ~*~young and confused~*~

The other night my best friends older cousin invited me to his apartment. We've been joking around about our relationship for a while now, and calling eachother pet names, but I always thought it was a joke. A few months ago, we were all in my friends basement playing video games and watching movies just to pass time until he (my friends cousin) left. He had decided not to leave, and he told me that he would rather stay with me, and he ditched his best friend. I thought nothing of it, I figured it was just another joke, but later that night while we were sharing a blanket he had started to feel my leg under the covers. I had forgotten about it until 2 days ago when he called me after an intereting conversation we had earlier that day. When I got to his house to see that nobody was home, I expected sometihng might happen. But I didn't think that I would end up giving him oral sex. We had cuddled and kissed quite a bit that night, and I had to tell my best friend about it after her whole family had suspected I was at his house. Worse, I am dating somebody else, and I really like him. I don't know how I should bring the subject up to my friends cousin to figure out what is going on between us... I NEED HELP!