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Hi I've got it pretty bad. I have a really fast metabolism and I'm fairly thin. In the past I have done a little bit of weights, and I wasn't as thin then as I am now. Recently I have lost some weight, mainly around the stomach, chest, wrists areas. So now I look fairly ridiculous, as my arms and shoulders are fairly large compared to the rest of my body. The thing is, I would like to just gain weight without working out, that is, I just want to gain fat, not muscle. I eat alot of food and more than 3 times a day. My diet contains: chicken, turkey, beef, cereals, milk, loads of water, fish, rice. I find it immensely difficult to gain so much as a pound. I was wondering whether I could gain fat without lifting weights and working out. Thanks.

Hey dude, I think it's too late to bring the conversation up casually. It seems to be that you and your gf have been together for awhile, and Colin being your best friend and all, wouldn't you have personally told him when you first started seeing her? Even if you brought it up casually, your friend would probably pick up on it and wonder why you didn't tell him earlier. I think the sooner you tell him, the better.

Hey 600r, I totally understand what you're going through as I'm in a similar situation myself. I wouldn't recommend you asking her out on your birthday for a number of reasons. Firstly, it puts her on the spot, and if she says no then it would only make her more guilty for turning you down on your birthday. Secondly, if you do go out, it puts you're anniversary and birthday on the one day, and if you guys break up, it'll leave a negative mark on you're birthday. My advice to you is: talk to her. Talk to her about her ex to determine whether or not she's over him. I think you should proabably give her some time. Then talk to her about your relationship to find out if there's a chance for you guys to be more than friends. Whether you're subtle or blunt is up to you.

Hi babybottlepop007 , I'm a guy aged 19. I don't think that breast size is all that important as long as they're natural. My ex girlfriend was small in that area and I really didn't care, because in a relationship it's the personality that matters. It's what you do that determines who you are, not how you look. If a guy truly cared for you, he would care about the size of your chest.