Ok, heres the deal. What would you do if your bf of 4 1/2 years was talking to girls online and getting their phone numbers and even calling one of them? About a month ago i was checking out my guy's phone and saw about 5 girls names in his phonebook. I checked the call history and 3 days before that he had called one of them that lives in the town to where he had been driving at the time. I asked him about it. He stammered and then told me he met them on link removed, then later when I looked at he sight I found out you have to say that you want to meet them before you can contact them!!! Then he changed his story to link removed so there is no telling how he met them. (by the way, he claims he wasn't calling the girl to hook up or anything.) In fact he claims this whole thing was just because I'm the only person he ever talks to and he wanted to talk to other people and just out of boredom. He was very sorry, erased their names and claims he won't do it anymore. i was furious, but got over it, or so I thought. It is impossible for me to trust him now. We constantly argue because I always check his internet history and his phone. I just have a feeling he might still be doing it, but no proof. Do I have reason to not trust him? Would you call what he did cheating? How can I get over this? or should I take a break from him for a while? I need help!!!!!!!!!!
