BUMPing this thread for those of us that may not have seen it.
This man is brilliant!!! I am also one who says 'well maybe my situation is different'... well it's not! I don't like games either but this isn't so much a game as a guide to what really works and has a happy ending anyway it ends up. Much easier said than done but this is just some amazing advice.
I love love the feed the birdie theory also, that's my current plan of action!!!