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This is all pretty terrible for you. Realistically, I think you'd be better off to forget about it all and start afresh. The roomate will possibly become something more and can you really cope with the worry? I know I couldn't. T.

Has anyone out there gone through this and had happy results? I'd like to know: I'm a 30 year old woman and am going out with a 52 year old man. He's been married before and has children aged 16, 21 and 24. I'm constantly fretting that if things get really serious with us and we want to marry, I'll be denied the opportunity to have children. He's sick of kids and found his own to be a stressful experience he thinks he could never tolerate again. He also seems to be worried about "trapping" me, often saying that I'd make someone a lovely wife one day (perhaps not meaning himself...). I'm so worried - he's the first guy I've been totally in love with so I'm feeling vulnerable and a bit scared of what could happen. I hope there's someone else out there who's been through this and has a little advice for me. Tracy.