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    Thanks 1guygirl.. It's nice to be teachers pet sometimes! lol Hi Dunzo and Aldo.. NC, NC and NC its the only way folks anything else unless you hear "I want you back or similar" is just delaying your healing. Andy
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    It's good to mingle mate and the fish are a plenty. So get swimming mate!...
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    Yeah i'm good thanks. Just done my challenge now it's your turn!! LOL
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    Good Luck Brownsville Girl.. welcome to the NC challenge..
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    8 days eh.. not long to go mate! After about 20 days I lost count to be honest it was only my previous posts that helped me work it out.. My advice sod em.. in a nice and caring way of course. I still love her but I love ME more mate..! It's all about me, sounds a bit selfish! LOL I am kinda liking being single, never thought I would say that a few months back! Yeah I would like someone to cuddle up to who don't eh.. just in no rush.. So my advice mate to all, think about yourself. The world is your oyster kinda thing. There is plenty more fish in the sea and all that. I did and still do love a certain fish but she decided to go to the next pond and I kinda like the pond I'm in! Geez I need to stop talking in riddles! Anyhow go out and party and give speed dating a go it's a laugh! Andy
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    Cheers SD.. Once I got in my head..finally that NC was the right thing to do. It has really done the trick! I am not 100% but well on my way.. So thanks for your advice and wisdom mate..
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    Thanks LonelyDoll.. Hope things are going well for you too.. Good Luck Waterbaby..
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    Drum Roll....... Day 30.. Yep I got there in the end.. WOOHOO So I got there folks, second attempt mind you!! LOL So folks how do I feel, I kinda got a grin on me face! Just a little achievement makes you feel good I guess.. I am kinda proud of myself even though it may seem a bit daft just not making contact for 30 days but it's tough especially at the beginning. So to you all, do it for yourself it is worth it and makes you feel a whole lot better.. So whats been happening for me then.. Well just getting on with things really. Met a couple of women but just as friends really who I see now and then. Joined a hiking group and making new friends which is good. Went speed dating last night and it was a laugh! A chance to meet lots of new women in one go how cool it that. I went along with a mate and just went and took it as a good night out. One woman I kinda liked so maybe I will get a tick maybe I wont but it's a great confidence booster and helps you feel better about communicating with new people (not that I struggled anyhow but my confidence felt knocked a bit). So folks give it a go if you feel ready as it's a good night out. I will continue to check out the 30 day NC challenge thread and may pop my thoughts on here when having a bad day as we all have them but more to give you guys support as many have done that for me too. So my NC journey continues.. Good luck all, Take Care.. Andy
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    Yeah I am not three bad thanks.. Glad to hear your ok today..
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    Your doing well hfsf keep it up hun.. Your Mark Darcy is around somewhere I am sure! Andy
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    DAY 28 Getting closer to the big 30.. woohoo..
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    Hi HFSF, Knight and all.. DAY 27 only 3 days more woohoo..! I'm alright today, got told by one of my female friends she cant go camping as she has got back with one of her old flames..! DOH.. we are still mates though but I guess it will calm down a bit now she has a guy again.. So at least we know reconciliation works eh!! She is always getting back with exes too be honest and then falling out..!! LOL
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    Hi Fellow No Contacters! Hi Ya Knight and hfsf Hope your both doing well.. Knight, stick with what your doing mate your doing well... Yeah HFSF the hiking was good thanks and nice to hear you had a good time camping. Sorry to hear about the nail!
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    Hi Knight Sounds like your doing better mate. Not a big fan of sundays myself as usually a day for just chilling out and being with your thoughts. Glad to hear you had a good night friday. Andy
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    Day 26 Feel ok today, really got through the worst of the no contact phases I feel. This is my second time around and got too about this many days last time I believe but feel a whole lot better about doing it this time.
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    Hi HFSF, Hope your doing well. I am good thanks. Just been out with this hiking group I joined today and had a great time. Off out with them tonight for a few beers too, one woman I have kinda got on with and she invited me along tonight! So DAY 25 and things are ok for me..
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    Hi HFSF Enjoy the camping, I am going camping myself in a couple of weeks. Hope your doing well. Andy
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    Day 24 Work ok, I'm ok. Hope to have an OK weekend too!!
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    Day 23 Not a bad day at all. Good day at work and kept myself busy...
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    Day 22 Had to look back to work out the days and geez is it 22 already! Woohoo So well on the way to the big 30... Will then continue NC and will post here and there but in terms of the challenge it will be complete and that will be good to know. So keep it up folks you can get there.. Andy
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    Hi All Not sure what day it is unless I look back, 18 or 19 I think... Ok today, so just getting on with things... Welcome Paolo and good luck mate.. Hi Knight, glad to hear you are doing so well mate and had a great birthday weekend, keep up the good work.. Hi S.Ken - I think you have made the right choice doing nothing is so good to do or should that be not do!! LOL. You can't go wrong can you really. If you do something and it backfires you will regret it so best to just leave it or you may just get that robot reply as you mentioned and what will that prove.. Nothing mate! I do agree with keeping yourself busy that day just to keep your mind off the day thats what I did and it worked a treat. You will feel kinda empowered by doing it trust me!! So DO NOTHING... Andy
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    Hi Andyraz How is it tricky? Best thing to do is post your own thread first on whats happened etc to get some views and see what advice you are given. Good luck mate, Andy
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    Hi Sandy Anger is a great emotion, use it to help you move forward. I went through a brief annoyed with her for ending it phase and it did help get my emotions in check.. Andy
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    Hi S.Ken Dont do the birthday contact thing especially as you are in NC. It wont prove anything really. I am sure she knows how you feel and is a "Happy Birthday" message going to make a big difference probably not.. Check out my thread the important occasion contact for plenty of views on this. It helped me not do the contact on my ex's birthday only last week. If I had made contact I am sure I would of got a "Thanks, Andy. Take Care" kinda reply woohoo! Would of set my mind going again and I didnt want to do that as I have been doing quite well. So IMO I would leave it mate but it's your call.. Andy
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    Hi Sandy Good for you for jumping back on the wagon, a big wagon this eh!! Hope your doing ok and as time goes by it should start to get a bit easier for you well I hope so.. Good for you thought that you won't let him have another opportunity.. Take Care Hun.. Andy
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