wow girl, that sounds exactly like the marriage i am in too....my husband is the same way....goes to work, watches tv, goes to bed....either that or goes to play poker...does absolutely nothing around the house...so i'm completely overwhelmed with housework and laundry and all that stuff, that it makes me get bitter.....
and the affection thing...my husband does the same thing...if i try to hug or kiss him when he gets home he tries to get me to back off...i dont get it...
does he communicate with you at all? like on any level? how often do you fight? we fight but it is "always my fault"...we never really communicate...what if you asked him to pick up his junk, would he just get angry? i know my husband would...
sorry i don't have any advice...but know that you're not alone
