endeavour33

Thanks guys for the advice and support. Yes, I kinda know the answer myself already. This is actually not the first time. He cheated on me once in this LDR but he asked for another chance soon after. Thought things would be good again since then. I don't know what is left of him that I still love about. Just find this very painful. Just hope this feeling will be over soon.

My ex bf of 5 years broke up with me about a year ago but things dragged between us until he started seeing someone else recently. He was my best friend before we started dating and I am completely devastated. We broke up parlty because we were in a long-distance relationship and that he couldn't stand being alone. I was somewhat surprised when he told me recetly that he has a new gf as not too long ago we were still discussing of starting things over and he showed me his sincerety to get back together. I felt heart-broken and betrayed when I found out he's seeing someone and was determined to cut him out of my life. Yet, I am still in love with him. He called me from time to time to check on me and tells me that he misses me a lot. He told me that he's very confused now. He even said that he likes his new gf ok and she's just there to pass time. Yet I'm scared that I would believe his words and couldn't move on. Apart of me still wanted to stay in touch with him because I'm scared if we lose contact, his remaining feelings for me would be gone too. I know this is very stupid of me to think this way and I'm mad at myself for still having feelings for him. In the past few weeks, he stopped contacting me. And I start to wonder if he has finally moved on. I sent him a x'mas prezie last month but he didn't call or email to say anything about it. I then call to check whether he received it and he then casually acknowledged it. He sounded so cold on the phone and was a complete different person. His attitudes just fluctuate so much and I find it hard to believe all the things he had told me . I have been trying hard to get him out of my mind and yet I find it so hard. Can someone tell me whether he has moved on already? How do I get out of this mess?

Great advice! My ex bf of 5 years broke up with me about a year ago but we dragged for quite a long time afterward and only about half a year ago we talked about starting things over again. Until recently he began to distance from me and I found out that he's seeing someone. (We're on long-distance). I was completely devastated. I felt betrayed. We've been through a lot and I thought he was the love of my life. He cheated on me some years ago but I forgave him and we had happy times together since then. Since then I was determined to cut him out of my life, yet from time to time he still calls to check on me and tells me how much he misses me. I was so confused. Yet, I'm still very much in love with him. In x'mas, I sent him a small gift and I know deep inside it's stupid for me to do that, especially he has a gf now. I spoke to him on the phone recently and asked if he received the present. He casually acknowledged and didn't say much afterward. This totally backfires me and I couldn't feel myself anymore stupid. I still don't understand why he does that. Has he moved on already??