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It's asking you to describe a fictional character that you might meet in the future that is different from you in terms of culture, economic and academic factors, and describe what you might learn from this person that would help you grow as a person.

So you could basically describe someone who is the opposite of you...like if you're from a traditional white family, that is wealthy and have had a good education you could describe someone from an ethnic minority, with a low income and a lack of opportunity in education (i.e. a "bad" school) and talk about what you could learn from them.....hard work, putting the effort in to achieve your dreams blah blah blah.

see, it's never been a problem because normally i'm too wasted to care and just go with the flow and plus the people I end up with kind of know about them anyway and are too wasted to properly notice but i worry about when or if it comes to being with someone properly like in a proper relationship.

What if he didn't want to tell you where they came from?

Scars are really cool. I try to get in fights so I can bruise myself.

No offense....but that's fecking rediculous.

Maybe you could get a job writing about wildlife and conservation and do a part time course in it?

What would you do or say if a guy you were getting close to had a lot of scars on his body? Would you find it repulsive? Would you try and make him talk about them?

If you have a copy of one of his favourite photos or pictures you can get it blown up and put onto a canvas for his flat. There are lots of websites that do it and they look really good. My friend got one done of an ice cave for his girlfriend.

This is a tricky one.....

1. You already denied it lots of time so to tell the truth now would make it an even harder blow because not only did you cheat but you blatently lied and denied it for ages even though it was true.

2. But if you don't tell it means you're still lying.

3. What would be the reason to tell the truth? To clear your own consicence and make yourself feel better? Or for the good of your partner? If you're only going to do it for yourself then what's the point?

4. What do you think your partner would want you do?

Someone suffering worse than another is just perception.....like pain. To some it might be worse, to others it may not. And really, at the end of the day the fact that someone, somewhere may or may not have suffered worse really doesn't mean much. Everyone is different. Everyone can cope with things that others can't. Why is it cowardly? Because society says so? What about people with chronic pain that will never get better? What about those with debilitating illnesses killing themselves earlier than their disease manifests itself? Are they cowardly too? To be honest if I were at the point where I was definitely going to kill myself I wouldn't care whether someone would think I was a coward or not because, frankly, I'd be past any kind of subjective thinking by then.

Living for a possibility that probably won't come means you'll never have happiness. So should people stick around to make others happy? Isn't that selfish on the people guilt tripping you into doing so?

in my opinion it is totally pathetic to commit suicide, i dont care whats wrong, just do something, anything that stops u thnking. just get on with life like everyone else does.

That's kind of harsh. How are you to know that if your world fell completely apart and you sank into depression you wouldn't consider or do it.

It boils down to this.....No one else can tell you the point of life. You have to find it on your own. It's an individual thing. Whatever answers you're looking for you're only going to find them within yourself.

Well, if you with all your infinite wisdom, can't find the point, what hope is there for us mere mortals?

One of my solutions is just not to go to sleep. If you aren't asleep you don't get nightmares and eventually you get so tired that you have to sleep but it's a different kind of sleep. That's what I do anyway. Not very helpful to you though. Sorry. I hope someone can give you better advice.

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Someday, maybe.

Oh right. Yeah, if I feel bad I just take something else.

What do you mean, limits?

They're the only things that get me through though.

It's okay. I'll be fine. Thanks.

I read it but I don't have any advice for you except to leave her alone.

I'll be fine. thanks

My wife's previous husband died of liver cancer 13 years ago. My wife and her son were alone for 8 years.

That tells you all you need to know.

How long was it just her and her son?

I went but I wasn't actually there.

I posted one of mine.