Off To See The Wizard
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I have fairly recently had the same thing happen to me! The manager did not like me (I had been there for a while like you) and he accused me of stealing when I did not! I am still a bit bitter but it was for the best. I have just recently heard that he has been fired so I guess they finally caught on to his lack of ability to do his job.
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Miss Dyme, you are in London, right? Well, there is a bpas (British Pregnancy Advisory Service link removed) in Twickenham and I think there is another one more central. If you get a referral from family planning for your termination then you can go there (for free but you need the referral or you will have to pay). If you are less than 9 weeks (I think) then you can go for the pill option, which will be an induced miscarriage. They were lovely and helpful there so give them a ring. Hope all is well. Once again: link removed xoooxo
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Well, I've been to the doctors this morning and I did in fact have a miscarriage so I did not have to go ahead with the termination after all. Not bad timing, body...thanks. Thanks to everyone for their support. Southerngirl thanks for that bit of reassurance about the future as well. I did tell the ex and he said that he would support me either way, whatever decision I made, which was lovely of him. So all in all, a relatively happy ending. Now to get on with my life. Feels like everything else has been on pause till today! xoxooooxx
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Um, I have strong cramps and rather heavy bleeding with 'chunks'. (sorry to be slightly graphic) I've had light bleeding and cramping from the beginning but this is different (heavier and more painful). The cramps I had yesterday made me wince with the pain from time to time. And today an alarminly large bit came out when I went to the toilet. I thought it might be it. (??) I am to the doctors on Monday morning so I think I will tell them then before they give me the pill so they can check and see. They will give me antibiotics then too to prevent infection. Once again, sorry about the graphic-ness.
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I think I'm with Scout here because I do feel that I will spill the beans at somepoint in the future if I am out and have had a few bevies. And we were together for five years. That's a long time. Besides that I feel that I may have/or currently am having a misscairage. I have never been pregnant before so obviously can't be sure but from what I've read online I think I have the symptoms. I wonder how long before I should do another test to see. Or maybe I will tell the doctors on Monday and they can check first before they give me the pill. It somehow seems better in a (odd) way if I have miscarried instead of a termination. And better as well if I were to tell the ex. ps thank you all for your advice it's a big help
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In addition, I wonder if it is wrong of me to continue to see him when I think his feelings are quite a lot stronger than mine. The way I see i see it, we are both sort of using eachother for sex but if he still secretly wants to get back together is this a very bad idea and should I stop seeing him?
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My main fear was that he would actually want it and not be supportive of my decision to terminate. But I am 100% sure of my decision and his opinion would not sway me in any way. I just don't want to hurt him. Thanks for your advice.
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You should be able to go for the pill option, miss dyme. I am in exactly the same situation as you. I have got my appt. on Monday for the pill. I would have had to wait two weeks for the vaccum option and I didn't want it to get bigger. I am 5 weeks almost 6. Have you been to bpas?
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Hi. I broke up with my x-boyfriend last April. He did not want to break up. We were together for 5 years. Recently, (November-ish) we met up for a catch up drink as we had been doing maybe once a month after the break up. (btw, no contact was done in the beginning). We ended up having sex a couple times and one time we didn't use a condom (i was inbetween switching from the pill to the injection). Anyways, long story short, I found out I was pregnant a few weeks ago and cant decide to tell him or not. We are still good friends who occasionally sleep together. I will be seeing him tomorrow for the first time in a while and would like to know what you all think. Should I say anything or not? I am scheduled in for a termination on Monday although i have a feeling i've been miscarrying it yesterday and today anyways. What to do??! Help!