empyrealprincess

ok heres the deal. oral sex is good, vaginal sex is good, anal sex is good. he likes all these things. he's ok with kissing and whatever. but when he ejaculates he seems to be grossed out by it...or something. i dunno. As hazey amber had mentioned....its the same for me really. i dont see it as an issue....its me, and its him, i dont see it as gross. Perhaps its not the most attractive thing, but its not like "ewwwwwwwwwww omg! your fluids are all over the place" its basically like a "whatever" situation. we're sharing that experience together, so it really doesnt bother me that we share fluid either....well you know what i mean. Perhaps it is a maturity issue....i'm not really sure. Unfortunately, i cant even explain what he's like....he's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO different from anyone i've ever dated....men says we females are confusing, and hard to understand....trust me on this one guys....this is a breed of male NONE of you have seen. It bothers me to an extent, and I've tried to tal to him about it...but it's just who he is, and I can't change that. Just...frustrating sometimes BLAH! the things we do for the ones we love eh? anyway, thanks for all the comments/advice/opinions...everything! greatly appreciated...hahah and I know I dont have the most normal topics here do i

I'm not sure I understand this. My significant other seems to be absolutely disgusted with our bodily fluid after intercourse. Why is this? He seems to be weirded out by it.....I've never been with someone that has been, so it puzzles me. It really doesnt bother me, we've done the act out of love, so whatever! He doesnt seem to mind kissing and what not. It's just after we've been intimate. What's worse, is that he's into the whole anal thing. So how is he interested in that, but weirded out by regular intercourse? Is this normal for men or what?

not as weird as not doing it at all i can understand not doing it in a public bathroom.....you never know WHAT germs are lingering there.....ewwwwww. now that i think about it....I should take a spray bottle of bleach to spray the seat down...blah!! hahahah

also the risk of bladder stones is prevelant. but thanks for the information everyone....and yes, i know its a weird topic...and its really embaressing for me...but i really think i need help to overcome this phobia i have so again, thank you everyone for your helpful responses

I have also heard of that disorder....it's actually not good at all, it can cause you not to go outside your house (like you mentioned) and thus damages important functioning organs. Again, I understand the human body and its functions....but such business is so difficult for me and i dont understand why! I feel so embaressed when I know I shouldn't be at all! it's natural!](*,)

forgot to add....just wanted to get a stat from the guys.....just because i'm curious....does it relaly matter to you if your girl defecates while you are around....or does it gross you out?

Aww thanks guys! you've been incredibly helpful! And I thought i was alone on this...but it sure sounds like there are others with this issue as well. i know what you mean about the girls are suppose to be "clean" and "pretty"....but to be hoenst, i have NO idea why i have this problem....i work in science....so I know all the ins and outs of the mechanical workings of the animal body.....but for some reason...I've just had this problem haunt me for so long! I have also heard of that detox method...so thank you again for that as well!? Any more hints...send em my way. Thanks again EVERYONE! PS: self-conscious....oh thats a whole new topic on its own for me! but i'm sure you are perfect just the way you are

I really wasnt sure on where to put this....I find it an odd question really. Well, here it goes. I've had this "issue" for quite some time now...ad I'm relaly not sure how to get over it. I was hoping someone here could help. The issue is using the bathroom while my boyfriend is around. I just can't seem to do it, it's like I am embarressed. Like I said, I've had this issue for quite sometime, around any companion, I feel umcomfortble using the bathroom around them. The reason this is such an issue now is because my boyfriend and I have decided to move in together....so obviously, I'm going to have to go sometime, right? I jsut find it very awkward, and weird....it's even gotten to the point where I can't even do it around family.....what is wrong with me? Why is this such an embarrasing issue for me? For some reason I view it as dirty and disgusting, yet I know everyone has to do it... so please please please...ANY advice on how i can get rid of this "fear" or "phobia" or whatever you would like to refer to it as.....abnormaility...it would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!!!