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Although I am not Christian, I dont mind Christian support groups if they provide answers..To be honest, most of these support groups, dont have a solution to turn you into a heterosexual person. They impart a sense of guilt in you to make you think that living alone and celibate is better than being with a guy.... So most of these groups, when they say that they "heal" homosexuals, all they do is succeed in making many of the people, absatin totally from gay sex and claim that they have "cured" someone.... Anyways, I appreciat all your suggestions, but there should be some other people like me, who want to somehow marry and be "straight" and happy....I really hope that I can find someone like that and be a support for each other in our hard goal (no pun intended), that we have set for ourselves Thanks

Hello, I am a 27 yr old gay male. I am from Asia and in our culture and in my family, being gay is just not an option. Needless to say, I am not "out". Even without family and societal pressures, I personally think that I would be happy only if I have a family of my own with wife and kids. I know many people in America and the west would suggest that I should try and live my real life and not "act". I appreciate your suggestions, but I believe, for me, given my family situation, that is not an option and personally I dont wantit either... But, if I have to marry a woman, I have to be intimate with her, which I cannot since I have no arousal..Is there any sugegstions that anyone has,like some herb or pill, which can help me get erexxxions, even when I am not aroused... The popular ED pills wont work and some online pills turned out to be hoaxes.. Please please someone help me..Please...

Hi, I am also in a similar situation. While I appreciate people recommending that we whould live like who we are without hiding, there are some of us (like me), who seriously think that a normal life with wife and kids is so much worth giving up the pleasures of physical sex with a man. Coming from an ultra conservative family and ultra conservative culture, I am ready to forego the physical pleasures...If only I could somehow be with a girl.... I believe that as we age, physical needs are replaced by mental needs. And for me, examples of mental needs are having a partner, a good friends circle and being respected in society. I believe being "straight" is the only way I can achieve all this in my society. Now the biggest problem is, I am not sure if I can perform with a woman...If only there was some pill or something, which will let me perform with a woman even without any arousal, I know I would be happy. I am sure that I will keep the woman happy as well....Please if someone has any pills or anything that can do this, please let me know... The popular pills will not work without arousal...