Wild_Orchid

But I really feel like I am ready to. It feels like this is the right time. I realize it will be a bit awkward, but I just want to make it the best possible experience. i only have one chance at this, so i want to make sure its the best it can be.

This exact same thing happened to me..Mine was there and gone within about 2 months, but i had a hard time eating/swallowing and it was kinda scary. what helped me was not swallowing pills dry, eating bland foods, and making sure I wasnt under a lot of stress. maybe itll help you.

I know we love each other, and my parents love him, but in the end, I want it to be my decision, not my parents.

She sounds like she has issues deciding between spending time with you or an ex who treated her * * * *ty. But if she sees you as just a friend right now, thats all you are to her. of course, you can always try to get her to see you as more than a friend, but its probably going to be a long haul, and you have to ask yourself if she is really worth it.

I think you should just move on from both these guys...I know moving on from a relationship that long can be extremely hard, but you need to find someone that is sweet to you ALL THE TIME, respects you, and cares about you no matter what. You may not find them right away, of course, but its important that you get away from these two and start the search, or you just wont be happy.

My boyfriend and I have been dating about 9 months now, and we came really close to having sex the other day(I am 16). Since then, Ive really started thinking that I want to have sex with him within the next month or so. But losing my virginity is an extremely big deal to me and I want to (a) make sure I am ready and (b) get some advice on the best way to lose my virginity. -What are some romantic/special places for us to have sex? -Is there anything you wish you did that you could suggest? -Any tips for before/after the act? -Any ways to make the atmosphere more special? Any advice you can give would be helpful. This is a really big deal to me and I just need some big brother/ big sisterly advice right now...