Hi Wonderfulconfusion
A couple of questions for you....who got dumped here! I came to this site looking for answers in how to get my girlfriend back. She did the dumping and I was devastated. After reading some posts about NC, which I have been doing for a week, I'm starting to realise that maybe I don't want her back, well not right now.....I'm learning more about my inner self without her and if she does come back I just hope she figures and corrects what was wrong with us..So if I was you, I'd be patient with NC, give it a month or two and let nature do it's course..Things always have a good way to turn out..