Linda19pr

I’ve never thought of the immigration factor and green card. That’s a new possibility for me to investigate further; after reading this post, lots of things makes so much sense; his constant calls asking me to check about ways I can bring him here with a fiancé visa for instance. I’m not saying that’s his motive, but I don’t know, I thought I knew him so well. Even thought we didn’t meet for a long time, we talked all the time and email each other every single day. I just cannot believe that someone would go thru so much to get a green card, all the emotional aspect of a so called relationship. He calls me his best friend, the one he wants to spend old age with, I’m really sad now. I feel like confronting him, but that’s not a good idea, I will take your suggestion. Thanks everybody for your opinions.

Thanks for the welcome! Well, once when I was super drunk suggested (as a joke) that now that we are going to be apart again, he should go out with other girls to gain some experience, but later when he commented back to me I told him I was just kidding. Sometimes, when we talk on the phone or chat he tells me that he will take my word and do it, and when I’m very mad, he will say he is just kidding. Almost everyday he asked me if I went out with someone and what happen, he said that as long as I talk about it then is okay. It’s a bit annoying and I feel like breaking up, but it’s been so long and we’ve made so many plans, I really don’t know what to do.

I've been on a long distance relation for almost 5 years with and Indian guy. On these 5 years we've met 4 times, and in total lived together for 3 months this year when I went to Brunei (where he was working) to visit. He said he wants to get married next year and bring me to his country for the wedding and for me to convert to Hinduism and later make the arrangement for him to move to the USA, if possible. My dilemma is that now that I've returned from those 3 months, he's been acting weird telling me that is okay for me to kiss and fondle other guys as long as there is not penetration. I asked him if he wants an open relationship but he said that I'm not allow to have sex, but I can do other things like "make out". I'm really sad, because after all these years he is saying I can go and do all this things with other guys. He is always saying he loves me very much, but now I have doubts about it. I need your opinions, what do you think? Should I dumb him now before is too late or what? I'll appreciate your comments.