Ok, my story....I have come out of a long relationship and wasn't even looking. A co-worker of mine was in a very similar situation and we became best of friends. As time moved on, well it didn't take long before she expressed her feelings for me and we eventually became an item. We have had great times for the last 5 months until the past couple of weeks. She now wants to put things on hold, she needs to find herself. I do understand she has some self-esteem issues and we both have baggage from our past relationships. We both want to resolve these personal issues and I know I need to give her space, but how, we work together everyday. And is it a reality that the two of us can come back clean-minded to get back together. She wants me to wait and I told her I will, just looking for some advice before I go nuts.