Tyler,
if she's a young woman, she has hormones you've never even dreamed of, that take her on an emotional roller coaster every month. She was probably ovulating, fertile as she can be, and you turned her down (which was smart. If a girl virtually assaults you when no protection is available, her body wants to get pregnant whether her inner self does or not.) So she was frustrated, insulted, and felt rejected. I wouldn't say she's a nut job, but she sounds kind of immature or insecure about your feelings for her. If she's a keeper, and you can still talk to her, explain that you declined because you care about her, and you placed her well-being above the almost overwhelming desire you felt/feel for her. But you have to mean it for that to sound believable; don't even try it unless you do.
As for your captivatingly romantic nature, any woman I know would be putty in your sweet hands, and the current lady doesn't know how good she has it.
McQ.
