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Hi, there is this one girl in this gym that I go to. She always looks at me whenever im lifting weights and always says hi to me. My friends keeps telling me that she likes me. She took the time to know my name without me telling her. I have been meaning to ask her what her name is and tell her that I think that she's really cute and I wanna get to know her. Do you guys think that's a good way to approach her? Any advice would be helpful, thanks.

Yeah that sux to hear. R u still in high school? Cause many high school guys are like that, they like to brag and lie about stuff. All i can tell you, is to just ignore it cause if you know its not true then that's all that really matters.

Heres a quick background on this: link removed link removed Things have change between us since then. Some good and some bad, it seems like this whole thing is going downhill. I dont know how it happened. I mean I still talk to her, i always ask her how her day was, how shes doing, how her work was, etc. I'm really sincere when i ask her all those questions and wants to know about it; im not just trying to ask her those things to make conversations with her. I never did anything wrong to her. I thought girls like it when guys give them attention and show affection to them. Maybe I'm taking this the wrong way, but last night on AIM when I was online and she signed on, she didnt even say hi to me or talked to me, maybe she was busy but i couldnt tell. I know thats not a big thing to worry about, but i just gotta know why is it always me thats saying hi to her first? Do girls like it better if a guy is the one thats making the move first? Lastly, should i give up on her? or should i try some more? Cause im really having a hard time making a decision on this, i still like her a lot and my heart is telling me to keep pursuing her and theres the other side of thats telling to just give on her. Need some advice. The more advice, the better it will help me make my decision. Thanks in advance.

heres a little background on this: link removed That post is almost 2 months old and things has been going pretty good between me and her. I been talking to her a lot when shes online. I already got her number and everything. I called her a couple of times. I asked her if she wanted to go to the movies with me and she said sure. The problem that I got right now is for some reason Im having a hard time calling her. My heart is telling me I should, but my head is saying that i probably shouldn't, cuz im thinking she might be busy and doesnt want to be bother. Do u girls like it if a guy calls u and talks to u? Need some advice. Thx. ---[added by secret_agent_man from a follow up post]--- Also, when do u think is the best time for me to tell her how i feel about her? When i go to the movies with her? Or should I wait and let things happen by itself?

Dunno man, but u can start by saying hi to her. Then ask her if she enjoyed the party and ask questions that will let u get to know her better like wat shes interested in, etc.

I took this girl to my senior prom. We talked and dance all night. I really enjoyed being around her. For some reason after the prom was all over and i dropped her home, i felt abit sad and all i can do was think about her. I think about her even now. I have her screen name in aim and her number. I just dont know how to tell her these feelings i have for her. What should i do? Should i just keep these feelings inside me and try to get it out of my system? Or should I just tell her? But if do tell her, isnt that coming on too strong? Need some advice. Thanks.