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That is what I am doing, I haven't tried to contact her. But if she contacts me I will answer. I am not trying to get stuck in the friends zone. I know she has feelings for me because even before we got together. We bumped into each other at the club and I was dancing with another girl. She told me she was jealous and that night she went up to me and asked me why I was ignoring her. But I wasn't I was just out to have a good time with my friends. When we actually got together her friend pointed out that she had never seen act like that over a guy. Apparently she could not stop talking about me. I am thinking I never gave her a chance to miss me. But it never hurts to hope. But I am also am trying to move on. Her friend is also my friend, she actually wants us to be together because she says I am the best thing that has happened to her.

they were separated when we got together. Also she did say the same thing as Melissa that she felt like she has known me forever.

Actually she did not cheat on her boyfriend. They separated before we got together. For some reason I am thinking she is going to change her mind and comeback to me.

Ok, I was trying to get this girl for about a month and a half. I did not know she had a boyfriend at the time. But she ended up getting together with me and she was all crazy about me, even her friend says she had never seen her act like that before. She dumped her boyfriend. So we got together and everything was great. But last week she said she just needed some time for herself, witch I understand so I left her alone for a couple of days. Than the next time I get to talk to her she says that this is not the kind of relationship she wants, that she needed some time to figure out what she wants. Basically she said I was too nice to her and she was not used to that. So we broke up on friday. Monday night her friend who is also her roomate calls me and she tells me that she is back with her ex. She finds out and we start talking on the phone she says that she did not want to tell me she was back together wit her ex. She got back together with him on sunday night. I really care for this girl and would like to be with her. But I don't know what else to do. I haven't tried to contact her since monday the last day we talked. I am pretty much certain that nothing is going to happen. So I am just trying to move on at the moment. Now I Know she knows I care for her, I am just wondering Why she did not want me to find out that she was back with her ex.

Yeah, I tought so I deleted her number out of my handy. I mean if she wanted to talk to me she would at least call. But I am not expecting anything to happen.

that is what I was thinking.

I called a girl last nite, and I asked her if she was busy and she said yeah. So I said ok and asked her if I could call her later, and asked her if she had a special time. This is what she answered me, you can call if I am not busy I'll answer and if I am I won't. So when she said that I told her good nite and did not call her again. What are your guys toughts?

Thanks for the advice RC

Ok, she texted me at one in the morning. Saying she was sorry that she hadn't texted or called, and that she had a lot of things on her head. because she is moving and looking for a new job. She said she has to take care of things she had started before she can move on to a new thing. Does anybody now what this means? Also why would she text at 1AM?(seems kind of weird)

I texted her this afternoon. I gave her my statement. I have not had a reply yet.

I will wait to text her until I get out of work today. To make my statement. I will update on the situation later on.

sounds like good advice. I am going to text her, but I am not going to expect something out of it.

So coach, what is your recommendation?

she said she was shy that night. I did ask her if she was with somebody before I tried anything and she said no.

well like relationship coach said, it is some one from her past.