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Thanks Kate, I think I made a mistake. Please guide me if some thing is wrong. She came out to me to discuss some office work. I was listening her patiently. I kept looking in to her eyes. She noticed me doing that. She went back furiously and suggested me to stop doing that as she hates that and this makes her feel stupid. I aplogized to her in a poetic way. Then she becomes okay. But I followed your advice on this, I started keeping my distance and stopped looking her on that day. Later on I asked her out for drinks by email. I got that -ve answer which I hate the most. I have decided that until she says to look at her, I am not going to. Did I do something wrong ? I really need some thorough laundry of myself. Regards Mitl1

Hi Kate Thanks for the reply. It's wonderful insight in to knowing about some one. I really appreciate your help. But I didn't mean to be rude by saying that a person is moody. you gave me very good example of that. I can guess you are SHE... yup, I agree this is definetly a board game, you have to watch out for so many things, that you can't go wrong. I will also not go wrong.... If It meant to happen it will happen.... I have full confidence in myself.... Keep in touch. I will keep bugging you with my questions. Many Thanks Mitl1

Hi Katelyn, Thank for the reply. I followed your advice. I was completely aloof for around one and half week. Suddenly I got an email from her saying that I didn't like her anymore. I responded positively by saying I do like her. She seems happy. I again mailed her with some of things. She seems to be replying positively uptill now. This is totally strange to me. Why she has to be so moody or she needs a lots of space. Some times I am confused about this. I wanted to ask her to go out with me. What do you think is the best time for this . Thanks mitl1

Hi, I started dating this work who works with me. we went out and kissed each other. We both liked each other. But from past few days, I asked her out again, she refused me. I don't know why... sometimes even in the morning, I asked her company for a cup of coffee and she keeps saying no, not now.. I gave her some gifts, she readily accepts them. I wanted to go out with her again and I don't know how to approach her or say it again. Sometimes she is so happy, and sometimes her mood is so strange. I am not able to calculate what's happening. Can any one point me in to the right direction ? or am I trying to be too aggressive with her. or should I keep patience. ? What do you guys suggest ? Mitl1

Hi SwingFox, I followed the approach, It worked. I ask her out for lunch. That will be the best way to know her. Thanks Raj

hi, At my workplace, I like my co-worker a lot and have a romantic feeling for her. Today I told her that, I had a dream about her for continously 4-5 days. I don't know whether It was the right thing or not. But the feelings are that she is made for me. After that we talked on normal things for around 20 min. I don't know how she took that information. Can some one please guide me how to approach to this further. What to say next, or my approach was incorrect. Raj