For the most part his kids would rather not spend any time with me, especially alone. Most of his time with his son is alone and his daughter has expressed that she would like him to come down and hang out with her at the house where she lives with his ex. This I am not comfortable. On occasion I have special alone time with my kids but because kids are comfortable in our home we do alot of things together. Our dinners and time together with my kids is very natural and comfortable on all sides but when it comes to togetherness with his kids there is this strain on all of us. Until we got together he supported everybody, son, daughter-in-law, grandaughter, daughter including ex (all lived under one roof in separate rooms), he paid for everything cars, insurance, housing, vacations, etc etc. Everybody got lavish gifts, Corvette at 16, Mustang at 16 etc etc and it seems that now that he isn't supporting everyone they aren't happy. Makes me a little bitter towards them because he has given and loved them so much and sometimes it seems like it is all about what he lavish on them rather than the love they should have for their father. And it isn't like he has taken everything away either. He still pays his daughter car payment and insurance, recently paid off a $15K debt of his sons, paying for his daughters college, contributing towards her medical. And they all are over 18. His son had a job as a manager, his daughter has jobs sporatically (she has a hard time committing to much of anything).