mr1977

my attraction to women isn't the problem as such.It's the fact I'm obsessed with my old college lecturer.I feel moving would help me get over her,and would lessen the chances of seeing her again.

I'm mr1977's g/f and I know he posted stuff on here about the problems we r having.We want things to work and are considering moving away to a new city,a fresh start as it were.I just want advice as to whether this would be a good idea or not?I'd be so grateful for any advice

thatonedude. I can understand where you're coming from.I have been in a relationship with a man for nearly 3 years and we have a baby.I was honest from the beginning and told him that I was also attracted to women.It will make things easier in the long run if you are both honest with each other and it may actually make you closer.My partner had the chance to run but he decided to stick with it and we now have gorgeous 6month old daughter.If your girl can't accept you for being you and vice versa then you shouldn't stay together cos it'll only cause a lot of hurt.My partner and i have been thru hell because of my attraction to women.But we have persevered to make things work.I'm not going to lie it will be HARD but if you really love each other then it's worth fighting for. hope this helps.mr 1977's girlfriend

She has told me she has kinda had a thing about women since the age of 13. Why a lecturer at college, she has no obvious idea. Perhaps its what you want but cannot have? Perhaps authoritarian figure, someone to dominate? She's not sure why the her feelings for the lecturer resurfaced. Perhaps her body returning to normal balance after birth of the baby?

My partner and I have been together coming up for 3 years now. When we met she told me she had a `desire` for her lecturer, who was female. At the beginning this didn`t concern me as i thought this was just a 'crush', but as time progressed I realised that this wasn`t the case. Her crush appeared more like an obsession, to which she agreed it was. Two years ago she left college because her obsessive behaviour towards her lecturer became out of hand. Before leaving my partner wrote her lecturer a letter, detailing why she had to leave. We now have a 6 month old baby and her obsession with her lecturer has returned again. Can anyone give me advice??