i wouldn't say it was confidence issues, more along the lines of trust issues . it was tough at first being with Fallout Girl . we both had forms of trust issues where it made us not truly want to give our all, at first. i was patient at first, and i feel confident that she was patient also. but when the fourth and fifth months rolled around, and i saw that we were'nt exactly at the progressive level that i would have like to have been, i started getting impatient. i started wondering whether she felt as strongly for me as i did for her. it definitely got ugly several times, but persistence prevailed and we are where we are now, crazy in love. i am in the Air Force, and am currently in Iraq right now taking pointless photos of a bunch of b/s. i hit a brick wall emotionally when i first got here, and Fallout Girl refused to let things between us go down the drain, and i will spend the rest of my life making it up to her.