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we've been on a few maybe once a week, 15 and 17

you can't believe everything you read, maybe they are into you, if i was you i'd ask them on a date, some people think it's odd that the lady asks out the guy, but if you really want to know, that's how i'd handle it, or maybe they just want friendship, better to find out now then be guessing your whole life

it was earlier today, but it's not so much that i'm anxious for her to call back i'm just scared to know that it's something bad on my part

here's the thing, this girl i'm currently dating and i last went out saturday night and i sent her an email last night saying i wanted to start a relationship together and haven't heard from her, one of our friends (who is like a sister to me) said i really needed to talk to her, and that just got me really scared right then and there and i kept asking her why, and if it was bad, and she said no just talk to her, so i ended up calling her, and i got her voice mail and just left her a message saying to get me back some time, and i'm still afraid, because i don't know what all this is about

i have an 18 month CD account with ING but there's probably a 6 month one out there

i do cardio almost every day i usually run about 4 miles and the next time i'll bike about 7 and the next one swim about 100 laps but if you are feeling an urge to eat sugar eat some fresh fruits also mix in fresh vegetables and just eat a balanced diet of course have somethin a little naughty to eat for a snack anything of your choice personally i don't do it but it won't hurt you

once again DN nails it right on that's how i would take it myself but it's up to you i personally wouldn't make first contact but that's just me

there's a guy that works at my local news paper named bob anderson but i'm pretty sure that isn't the same guy, i did a little yoga before i started lifting it helped mentally more than anything if that counts as a stretch

i start off with arm circles small and really fast then get bigger and slow down then do them backwards then arm accross the chest hold for 10-12 seconds both arms arm over your head and hand down your back and lightly pull on your elbow for 10-12 both arms then have your wrists pointing down and pull back on your fingers legs staright and try to touch your legs than your right foot over your left foot then left over right then i do groin stretches feet together and push down on your knees then have one leg straight out and hold it with your opposite hand then i do play girl which is put one leg straight out then your other leg over top of it it stretches your lower back and then i start my lift then i repeat the stretching after i'm done for 5-8 seconds for every one

i was learned you needed to have at least 5 gallons of saliva before you can contract it but that was my science teacher so i wouldn't trust her

I LOVE BILLY TALENT i was just thinking of that song haha but i'm not gonna lie here when i say "if only tears could bring you back" by m2m but by far the best one i've heard would have to be with this knife by smile empty soul

the others would include

cold by crossfade

hey angel by away from here

x-girlfriend by allister (haha very enjoyable)

happy break up song by NOFX (another enjoyable one

good to know if i ever wanted attention all i have to do is die by brand new

a breath of sunshine by scary kids scaring kids

are there any tips you could help me with for talking about a second date remember we already know a lot about each other from our first date and being around each other in new york thanks

in a lady:

no sense of humor

smoker

ONLY wanting sex from a relationship

doesn't know a thing about sports

over use of sarcasm

well this is from my previous post about me and a girl and we finally found time to go out, we've been good friends for a little over a month and a half so it wasn't as nerve racking as i thought it was going to be, it was very easy to keep the conversations flowing and they just kept going it was from the simplest thing as to the food we were eating to her family we went to a movie afterwards and i made a move to hold her hand and she was more than welcoming to do so (it didn't go any further than this it was only the first date) but on the way back home the conversations would go on for about 5-10 minutes than stop for what seemed like an hour but it was maybe only a minute at most she said she was tired all day she was working since about 10 this morning until about 4 and i think it was finally starting to settle in or maybe i just didn't do a good job i thought it went well until towards the end we said good night and good bye and all that good stuff, but i'm going to be playing basketball for the next week and she said she was going to a volleyball camp the following week and staying with her brother and after that football starts then volleyball and then school starts so there will probably only be a couple days that we'd be able to have a second date, if there is one, do you think i did ok for a first date or did i screw it up by not keeping it going on the way back? thanks for the input

My friends tell me that i do really well talking to women (which i think i do too) and i can keep the conversation easily going, focused mainly on her, and pick up the hints that lead to the next topic, but my problem is, i can't usually start the conversation, which sometimes brings trouble, and even after a half an hour-hour i run out of things to say period, please help

You mean you have a date scheduled? What does "working on that" mean when it comes to setting up a date? Just curious.

yeah we're trying to find some time around our schedules for something to work

i would have to agree with ailec, once you find a topic just keep putting more into it until it moves to a different subject, and just keep asking her questions which will work best

we as in we are trying to get something to work out, and it's been a while since i've gone on an actual date and i need some tips on how to start a conversation, because i know it's a lot different than when i was just playing the field.....thanks

we are working on that thanks though

This all started on a recent trip to New York, it was a school trip, and I will be a sophmore and she will be a senior next year, but I am good friends with one of her close friends, so I just went with them to wherever, I figured they would hate it, because I wouldn't know how they would react to me being with them, but they seemed to take me well.

The girl and I started feeling a mutual attraction during this trip, but it didn't start going anywhere (well it still hasn't with baseball and softball going on) until we got home where we've started to talk more and more about personal stuff, we had a conversation tonight, where I finally said to her I thought I felt something more than just a friend, she said she might feel the same, but the thing is that we really haven't hung out with the crazy schedules around sports and work, but the seasons are almost over, so that should straighten things out, I told her I didn't want to rush things so either of us get hurt or get into something we don't want to.

Could you offer me any tips or suggestions? sorry for the rant, but I felt it was needed

Well this is coming from a 15 year old kid, so if that's enough to turn you away do so now, but anyway.

The town I live in it's a small town of less than 1500, and I have a ton of friends, but only about 4 I do anything with, because all the others live out of town or have no lives, but I greatly enjoying swimming in our river, and this doesn't fly well with my parents, because they still haven't given up that I'm still 4 years old, I went down there a couple days ago, and I came home and my dad asked where I was and I said swimming in the river, and he said "Oh that was really smart of you wasn't it?" I was very irritated at this point and my mom came out and said she didn't mind me swimming down there, but don't make a habit of it, and now i was about to go off the edge (not just from these 2 things, but a lot of other stuff prior to this).

Now I know that a river can be dangerous, but I've been swimming in it for 3 years now, and I don't understand the sudden outbursts that they don't let me do anything with my friends(childish and I know that's what everybody says about their parents) outside of driving around looking for girls and swimming in the river, there is literally nothing to do around here, and I don't want to hear the "Oh I'm suuuuuuuuure you can find something to do with your time" because I've been there and heard that.

I guess I'll just never understand, when the river is high we never go swimming, we aren't that stupid, we swim above or below the dam (which is only 2 foot to begin with so we're usually jumping off it) we also swim together so if something would happen to go wrong we'd be there to help; we are all capable of swimming against the current, heck we even went UPSTREAM to underneath the bridge.

and now to the second part of my long and extremely boring rant, if I have your attention still great!

My parents are leaving for Las Vegas for the week, they are leaving Sunday, but I have to spend Saturday through next Thursday with my grandparents, they are staying over at my house, but they are just like my parents, they will NOT let me out of this house, even if it's to go get groceries. My grandma is a health freak, so I'll be eating EXTREME organic food (not that that is a problem, because I'm a bodybuilder, but it does get out of hand), I'll be trying to spend as much time doing something ligitamate as I can, but I don't think I'll be able to get any time outside of this house.

Any suggestions on what to do? THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING THIS!!

that's where just playin the field comes in play, don't get me wrong, i was one of the better players in my surfin days before i came back home to iowa, and i let that lifestyle go, but if you want to talk to girls again you make the conversation last and get her phone number

it's all about confidence, the main thing is keep the conversation about HER ask her questions like how's it goin, got any plans, what are you studying, and you can just branch off from there, for some it's easier said then done, but once you get the hang of it, you'll be good, just don't be david caruso in jade, don't be stupid with the questions, cuz that will NOT work haha, just does in the movies best of luck to you man

just a lot of cardio and weight lifting (mostly squats or leg press or any explosive liftings like hang cleans n such) should work well for you, yes i am a body builder but not hardcore just to look nice for the ladies

well she goes to a different school about 15 minutes away but i'll have my license in september and this was out of the blue because i told her how i felt about 2 months ago that's why i was surprised but thank you for the help