candykisses

^ well last time i thought i was in love but looking back now i realize it was just a silly crush but oh well

What's it like to be in love? I wouldn't know because I've never been in love. I'm 18, and I've had my share of crushes and flings but I don't think I've ever been in love with someone. Please describe.

I don't think he's shy. He is however, very very laid back and not the type of guy who would randomly hit on a girl and be like "how YOU doing?" I understand that it may be difficult for a guy to approach a girl if he doesn't know the guys she's with.....but this one time i was walking with a guy he DOES know and talks to on a regular basis, but when he saw us he looked away...almost like he was hoping we wouldn't see him. My friend told me afterwards that he could sense he was jealous. Was he?

I like this guy Toby and I don't know him too well but he's always very warm when i'm by myself...if he sees me walking alone he'll hug me, talk to me, wave at me. But whenever i'm with a guy friend or guy friends the most he'll do is wave back when i wave at him. Why is this? And if he gave me a hug even when we still barely know each other, and always stares at me, does that mean he likes me? (he's not the type to hug every girl he sees and my friends also pointed out that they've never seen him talk to girls)

^will do =) some traditions last through time for a reason....in my experience things have always turned out better when the guy have asked me out rather than me chasing after a guy...and with this current guy, he is not shy at all. if he's interested, he will ask me out. If he's not, me asking him out won't change how he feels about me. So i believe girls should just give the "green light" and guys do the asking.

^i think i am naturally a shy person but there are times when i don't feel shy at all and would just approach a random guy and start talking...and i have a lot of guy friends and most of my friends are guys..i have like no girl friends except for a few close ones...guys have asked me if i manhandle every guy and told me they thought i'm just friendly with every guy... but with THIS guy...i clam up. for example the first time we talked, he asked me if i'm interested in anyone after he found out i don't have a bf...and i answered something stupid (i said i wasnt interested in anyone)..normally i would be all flirty but i don't know why when it comes to a guy i like, i get so shy what can i do to show him i like him and not those other guys he sees me talking to? how to let him know its ok to make a move and i wont reject him...(cuz he was with me when i rejected a guy who randomly hit on me asking me out and he saw it all, so he might be scarred..haha)

we go to the same college... we met 2 weeks ago...and so far we've seen each other at school like 3 times and talked maybe twice i think he's interested but i've been acting terribly shy...when i saw him staring at me i quickly looked away, and another time my friend pointed out that he kept staring at me as i walked by but i was too shy so i didn't look back and just kept on walking should i act a little more interested? lol he's not a shy guy though...and i figured if he likes me he will ask me out eventually

Does a guy wait until he is sure there is mutual interest (however long that takes) before he makes his move? Or does he ask her out asap, say..within a month of knowing her, if he's interested? If a guy doesn't ask her out within the first couple of months is it safe to assume he's not interested in dating her?

3 am???? overprotective? my curfew is like.......10 pm!! try living my life lol

I am 18 but I am interested in guys who are a bit older like around 22,23,or even 24. I hear that guys go through a major transition as they reach this stage in their lives, and people tell me that I am too young for guys that age because we are at different stages of our lives, and that even if i do go out with one they're not going to take me seriously...What differs from guys at this stage than guys who are 18 or 19? What are they looking for relationship-wise? What's this "transition" people are talking about? Haha thanks

haha aww man you guys have such good ideas....why couldn't I think of that!? Too bad, I don't think he's gonna ask again *sniff* but those were some really cute comebacks We have seen each other around school I'd say since October but yesterday was our first real conversation and also the first time we were around each other without anyone around. As for signs he's interested....well I'm assuming if he asked me that question to begin with, that HE's interested? But I could be wrong so correct me if I'm wrong lol. There were definitely signs that he's physically attracted but I'm not so sure that he was actually interested, in a relationship that is. The one thing I do hate about myself is that I don't come off as very good relationship material. I guess the only thing i can really do now is wait for the next time I see him (usually a group setting)and see if he makes an effort to talk to me. I think we are at the point where we both know we're attracted yet still both unclear as to how the other one feels about ourselves. sigh...why is love so difficult

Just wondering how should you respond to someone when he asks you who you're interested in....and you're interested in HIM? Without being super direct and say "YOU..." and scare him because you two barely know each other...the trick is to let on that you like him but do it in a playful and teasing/flirty way....but how? what do you say? help? thanks! by the way: i responded with im not interested in anyone..because i didn't wanna let on SO soon and also his question came kind of as a surprise (I obviously regret saying that now, wish i could've done it differently)...so does that mean he thinks he doesn't have a chance now?