Its not being hopeless. Heartbrake is diffent for every one. It could of took you two months to get over her , or it could take a few years. Its normal to still love and miss her, if it was a close relationship , you'll always have a place for her in your heart. Trust me , I've been through what your going throw. Me and my ex broken up a year last july and i still love him as much as i did then, but I moved on. She'll always have a place in your heart. But she migth not be the one. And if she is , time will bring you back together. Don't let your love forr your ex , keep you from maybe a great relationship with another woman. Don't compare the two. Beacuse if you do , you'll fall into the same pattern you dicribed below. I really hope you consider my advice, its what help me move on.