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I think she is being abundantly overprotective of her brother. I don't know what her reasoning is. It could be some or all of the following: 1-- They got incestual when they were young? Which will screw everything up. 2-- She doesn't approve of you. Could be some underlying personal issues between you and his sis not talked about in a rational manner? Ex; She just doesn't like you with her bro, she thinks he can do better? And she is putting on a big freaky show to get you to leave out of his and her life? 3-- Perhaps her bro is her favorite sibling and she feels as though she is losing and/or has lost his brotherly love/attention towards her and wants all of it back and being selfish? 4--She is just a crazy friggen * * * * * and constantly needs attention like the attention * * * * * she is?

a friend of mine thinks he is being shallow and she mentioned that he needs to grow up a bit...eh, who knows.

I was on the phone with my boyfriend yesterday and he said he had to get off the phone and so I told him that I love and miss him and he said, "Ok yeah, same here"?!?! I heard his parents in the backround yapping about something. What I don't understand is, whenever his parents are around, he tries to get me off the phone as soon as possible?!? So my question is...He just refuses to say, "I love you and miss you" to me when the rents are present. Why????????? ...so confused.

When he lived in Jersey, he couldn't stand it. The cost of living is more expensive and he lived with 90 year old grandparents who are about to pass away, respectfully. We both know that it's going to be much better in VA, living wise. I'm just reallly sad that we can't see eachother as often as we had before he moved. I just can't take it. It's really tough.... wow. It's definetly going to be a while before we can be together again. He told me before he left that he would visit me every few weeks. I didn't realize him not being in sight everynight was going to be this tough on me. A few days after he left, all kinds of feelings/emotions hit me like a ton of bricks. All I keep thinking is, "Oh my god! I lost him, he's gone!" Anyway, I started college late and so I have a long ways to go before I graduate. It's going to be a while especially since I'm a dual degree student. It's double, the load on my shoulders. Oh and he wouldn't have been fine staying in Jersey. This is probably another reason why he left for the better. His birth mother lives here in Jersey and he can't stand her. She left him when he was born and yada. So, if my dad was the only parent who raised me, and he moved to another state, I would move right along with him and tell my mother to fly a kite....just my opinion. i gotta go to bed...drained.

Aloha, So, here's the deal...My lover, my world has left me and his good friends in New Jersey to start a new life in Virginia. To make a long story short...I encouraged him to move to Virginia, ya know the deal, better job, better pay, better living.I'm not too sure how he is doing. As far as how I am doing, I am depressed as hell. He's been down there not even a week and it's killing my heart. I love him to death but my heart is hurting and I feel so sad all in one. He tells me that he loves me everynight and he told me that he is going to come back for me and the only reason why he moved down there is becasue I told him so. He told me he wants to save money and buy a nice house so that when I'm done college in Jersey, I'll be with him in Va and have a happy life etc.. I can't move down there at this time becasue I have a 3 year old and work and college and he lives with his parents in VA for the time being and his parents are not cool with me and my son living there and yada. So, what is really bothering me now is that I can't tell whether or not he is ignoring me. I'm thinking he is a bit overwhelmed with the big move and starting a new job..I just don't know.I don't want to call him and pester him if he's overwhelmed etc.. His parents know of me and I don't think they approve of me becasue i have a son. Again, I just don't know. I haven't heard from my love in two days. I think I screwed up big time telling him to move to Va. Please.. comment back.. anyone.