I am going to try and make this short. I dated a man for 8 weeks, both of us felt that we had finally found "the one" We started getting alot of talk from our friends concerning marriage and babies, needless to say it felt alot like pressure. We broke up three weeks ago when he called to talk and when he was stumbling around with what he wanted to say I just asked "do you not want us to date anymore, it's ok" to which he replied "not right now." So that was that, of course then I find out that he has been asking about me every day and that he had no intention of us breaking up that night, he just wanted to talk. So I sent him a letter, addressed the pressure issue and told him what I would like to happen (slow down, date like normal people...) I mailed that letter on 11/30. Oh yeah, and he doesn't check the mail but like once a week (guys can be silly) so my problem is I haven't heard anything from him. He is not the kind of guy to not respond to anything, a phone call, email or letter. So I have no idea if he even got the letter, I am going crazy wondering about it. I have no idea what to do now and I need advice, I have little to no patience and I can't stand this. Please help!!