JSaint

Laboheme thanks so much for the advice, we met for lunch and it was great. We have plans for dinner on Wed.!

My ex and I have started talking after 10 weeks of NC. We have been together 2.5 years. We have acknowledged our problems and decided to work on our relationship. It has been awkward, the first time we saw each other was uncomfortable at first. He has suggested lunch tomorrow but I think we need to meet for dinner so we would have more time, I think we should just jump in with both feet. After all, you can't unring a bell. I just need advice, this is such an emotional time. Any advice will help

No I am not imagining a postal truck in a ditch but instead an error in the address, he lives in a condo and the mailing addresses are weird. I am afraid I got the address wrong. I am 30 and he is 24, he approached me and the age was never an issue with us.

I sent the letter because he wasn't checking his email anymore (he only used it to talk to me) and I wanted him to be able to reread the letter at will and soak it in. I just really didn't expect not to hear from him, it doesn't make sense. And not only that how can you go from "I'm falling in love with you" to not talking...and the feelings were genuine, I know him that well. So where did they go?

I am going to try and make this short. I dated a man for 8 weeks, both of us felt that we had finally found "the one" We started getting alot of talk from our friends concerning marriage and babies, needless to say it felt alot like pressure. We broke up three weeks ago when he called to talk and when he was stumbling around with what he wanted to say I just asked "do you not want us to date anymore, it's ok" to which he replied "not right now." So that was that, of course then I find out that he has been asking about me every day and that he had no intention of us breaking up that night, he just wanted to talk. So I sent him a letter, addressed the pressure issue and told him what I would like to happen (slow down, date like normal people...) I mailed that letter on 11/30. Oh yeah, and he doesn't check the mail but like once a week (guys can be silly) so my problem is I haven't heard anything from him. He is not the kind of guy to not respond to anything, a phone call, email or letter. So I have no idea if he even got the letter, I am going crazy wondering about it. I have no idea what to do now and I need advice, I have little to no patience and I can't stand this. Please help!!