There's an ex-fiancee of mine who I hadn't talked to in 2 years. We had a 9 year on-again/off-again relationship and used to occasionally take ecstasy together and make love during the experience. There is a 17 year age difference. Now I'm 32 years old and she's 49 years old.
So fast forward to the present. We've been broken up for 2 years and she calls me out of the blue. Since she inherited money, she offers me $5000, but says that due to a budget I'd get it in $500 or $1000 increments. So unlike the other times when we got back together, she didn't get sexual with me in our 2 meetings (a first).
So even though we hardly spoke in those 2 years, she used menopause as, possibly,a blanket excuse for not being sexual at all with me. She claimed that she didn't find herself attracted to anyone due to menopause when I laughed and said, "I guess your attraction to me is gone."
So I decided to get ecstasy to make an exciting sexual experience for the both of us. I still gave that the benefit of the doubt about the menopause being the reason she couldn't, unlike ever before, get sexual--even though my gut thought otherwise. Well, after 3 weeks of her being cold and indifferent, I finally leave a message in which I say, "I'm sitting on some good stuff. At this rate, if I don't hear from you, I'll take it without you." So she calls back all nice and sweet, unlike she had been since we started talking again a month ago. Caller ID kept probably kept her from ever answering those 3 weeks. She always claimed she was sleeping or something.
So the night I bring the ecstasy over, she CLAIMS that is has no effect on her. Then she tells me, 8 hours later, around midnight, that she needs to drive me home. So she does and it occurs to me later, after I got home, that I had been had. I called 5 times the next day and she claims the same thing.
Here's the problem. Me and a friend split a 10-pack of ecstasy pills. I took some before my date with my ex and it worked. The friend who got the other 5 pills said it worked for her.
So if my ex is claiming that the pills didn't affect her, isn't she lying to me? How should I go about confronting this? I have one more month left on the east coast and like a fool, I want to call that ex and leave a message saying that I'm moving in a month and would like to get together one last time. Then if she can't get physical with me, I'll let her know that my friend's experience confirmed that she was lying to me. All I could think was that I spent 2 weeks trying to score that stuff, caring about what she thought about me, yet chances are that she sent me on my way the night she didn't supposedly get affected by the stuff, only to probably take the "love drug" with someone else. Or at the very least lied to me. What should I do? Let it go and see her one more time, or let her know if our last meeting doesn't even end up her our sleeping together? (Since she claimed that she's eventually sleep with me once she adjusted to her new hormone/menopause medication).