teddy202

It most certainly is my business if he is watching porn, while taking care of himself or not. My issue is not with my man masturbating, its who he's thinking about or looking at while he does it. I gave him graphic pictures of myself for that purpose and he promises not to use porn. Are you saying that he will use it anyway, because he's a man. Thats a poor excuse !!!

Men stick up for men and they will not admit that porn could be wrong. I think that porn is just plain wrong. Sex is something that should be between two people, not a spectator sport. How can anyone, man or woman be in a committed relationship and say that it is OK to look at someone else and get off and their partner should not feel insecure about it. People in love should get off on each other, not watching someone else .

I totally agree with you. As I was reading your post it was as if I had written it myself. I am so tired of always feeling like I have to compete. Everywhere you look theres naked women and people having sex. My boyfriend likes porn, promises he won't watch it anymore, out of respect for me but at the same time, he resents me for it, so how is that the answer. I really don't know what to do anymore. I hate porn, its disgusting and immoral and if he wants to watch it then I'm afraid it won't be with me. Even though he says he won't watch it, he gets off on the hard core stuff, so how can I trust him.