Someaussiedude

argh (probably a dead post now) but i'ma dropping this girl n i don't really care bout the dramas either - girls love drama.. . n I think a girl whos only hobby is a guy is a bit much. I feel theres really no such thing as a good girl their all game playing sl*ts.. sorry could be untrue but that's how I feel ...well happy valenstine ppl . .. hope it goes well 4 yas.. I think i wan't mine alone...again lol

i'm digg'n what ya saying PocoDiablo now that I think bout it...if she has to bulls**t to her mum about meeting a guy that's a bad sign yeh? because her mum didn't seem that bad just strict (probably for a good reason I can imagine) (16 is the legal age, but i'll keep that in mind ..since a girls done that to me b4 ) excellent advice ppl, my thanx..i'll let you know what happens tomorrow

thanx 4 the pointers guys I fall sucker to girls pity-games sometimes n don't know how to be firm enough with them, she goes on bout her weight but to be honest I think shes pretty n attractive enough it's her personality that scares me abit I should just tell her that she is too young and I don't have deep feelings for her (just be real) n maybie in the future things can work out..and in the meantime she can stay with her ex? hehe I dunno i'm hopeless with girls ..argh *gulps* gettn ready for a soap opera from hell hehe

I was kinda thinking the same thing...although I feel things take time maybie i shouldn't say never ever?..although I am a little freaked her mum was like tagging around us 2, and like giving me lectures on things (like telling me about how I should quit smoking whilst she is smoking herself and asking personal questions about me on like the 2nd day we were together) wanting my number etc etc...n continuelly calling me Although I feel bad about having sex with her without dating her first and hugging/kissing etc. esp since she is only 17, I feel uneasy about how one the first day she was telling me how shes still doing it with her ex, if we dated she would stop..then says she loves me on the 3rd day?...She was like banging her head on the walls saying she wants to kill herself because i told her "not yet" about the dating thing..it's going to really f*****g suck doing it

Hi, I need help, I am 22 years old and dating a 17 year old girl I met off the internet. We had sex on the first day I know I should have waited but she said she didn't care.and we have been having sex alot. Anyway this girl- It's not like i'm not attracted to her because I am, (although she is a bit overweight) But I feel she is far too possesive of me, she never wants to leave my side, and although I am gratefull I'm the kinda guy that needs my space sometimes (I really am okay being alone I haven't dated a girl in 5 years I'm quite accustomed to it) whereas she can't stand being alone. Anyway I told her i didn't want to date her until we got to know each other for a longer time (since I am jobless (like her) and I am scarred rushing into relationships too soon because I am always the one hurt when i'm with girls. She says she wants to be more then "just" friends..but if i'm with a girl, dating her..i think the friendship part is really an important key to a relationship. Anyway, She said she loves me (after like 3 days being together) and it comes as a bit of a shock, She keeps lying to her parents that she is tired etc so she can stay over And she is a little manipulative to get what she wants... I feel guity because i shouldn't have had sex with her until I got to know her a little more but it just happened The problem is I really don't have strong feelings for this girl although love takes time, she doesn't exactly blow me away (not that I have high standards) Anyway we are dating (although I feel a little pushed into it, And I really don't wan't to break this girls heart (I'm not a bad guy) But feel arrogant to say this but I feel I am a little more mature then her, (not that she is totally ammature)..she said she was still doing it with her ex..and she doesn't wanna hang round him anymore n wants to be with me(and I'm not with any other girls at the moment.and pretty easy going about the whole thing. I don't know whether to stay with this girl a little longer or just end it (I know it will hurt her and I will feel really guity…but I do think shes okay so far ..I just feel sufforcated, and I told her she was trying to control me too much, when I told her to wait for awhile b4 we dated she started crying .. n it kinda annoys me that shes always crying or having a supposed "panic attack" when she hears what she doesn't wanna hear.. Anyway Since I have been with 3 girls in my life (1 was a gf from highschool) I am inexpeirenced with girls.. I desperatly need imput any advice would be greatly appreciated ..thankyou

Thanx you so much ppl I guess love/attachment clouds your head and u pretend that person isn't as bad as they really are, or they will change...they won't change and if they do it's not worth waiting 4, i gotta live my own life and be happy. Just one of those stupid guys that gets led around by my dick too easy, maybie the hard way teaches you the best, I have saved every email every piece of information/letter etc as evidence in the future. I seriously doubt she will take me to court, My stepdad is a solicitor and he has bigger guns then her, not only that if she takes me to police/court i will call on the other male victim (whom i know of from highschool to confess the same story of what this girl did) she knows if she ever tries i will destroy her) What can i say i tried suicuide it takes "love the girl to death" to a whole new level as much as i shouldn't kick myself it was my own fault i was so weak let this happen. its so severe it's like....... forget this girl or she will totally destroy my future, she calls me "best friend, soulmate blah blah" she claimed she was sexually abbused as a child.....( who KNOWS whether to believe her or not now) doesn't give her a right to ruin mens lives thanx so much for the feedback ppl, it means alot

Women rape….psychologically Alright so I fell in love with my best friends girlfriend…never did nothing with her when they were dating I never betrayed him I never even interfeared in any way with their relationship. (she was crackling onto me and flirting with me behind his back the whole time) and I resisted because I wouldn't dog my mate. Anyway, I remember in highschool where everyone used to sit in this laneway and smoke cigarettes, these girls used to write stuff about each other on the walls of houses one was (*the girls name* pretends to get raped to get all the attention*she rubbed it off the wall very very quickly I didn't see the red flags. Anyway this girl went to this party without her bf once (my old best mate) I dunno she said some dude raped her (obviously as a story for cheating on my friend) anyway…the day she wanted to break up with him she came over and was cracking onto me really hard and I STILL didn't give in, a lil after they broke up she insisted at my house and insisted on staying in my bed (even though I offered her another mattress cuz I had tinnia, I was stoned and not that horney at the time, but we did it…anyway it was fine for a day or two… I told my friend (who had broken up with her) then she started accusing me off raping her (she had ANOTHER boyfriend she got and am now starting to think maybie she slept with me to get revenge on her bf? The whole thing seemed very planned…anyway after we had a HUGE fight on the street I told her to look me in the eyes and say I raped her and she did, I told her to take me to police n court and she said she wouldn't bother, It cut me like nothing less b4 when a girl u think is a friend look you in the eye and accuse you of a crime so horrible. There were about 5 dudes she had sex with whilst with a partner and she claims they ALL rapped her…is this girl have a severe problem admitting she has loyalty problems or just screwed in the head?…both probably I asked her out after and she said (we are just friends , friends is all we would ever be ) Anyway she came back to my door a little after she broke up with her NEXT bf…thinking everything would be just hunky dory, she started chattn up my friends too, then we didn't see each other for 1-2 years she moved far away then she came back…started flirting with AGAIN with me. One day I flipped at her…I said "you call me a rappist then a soulmate then wink at me…have a good think whos the loser" and she started crying I didn't care she was like "I've forgiven all those mean boys) REALLY screwed in the head. Anyway I finally (just recently reached breaking point) I told her she has been flirting with me for years with boyfriends and never following it through and I told her that the rape thing hurt too much cuz I loved her and it got in the way of our friendship , (this was an email) she was like ow I'm sorry sorry please take me back (she FINALLY appolisied for the rape thing….I said "u say u love me as a friend, you have a strange way of showing it…she couldn't really say much back…I said…how many OTHER nice guy friends wanna put their dick into you?…she knew what I was talking about…I go why do u care about losing me as a friend anyway??? Nice guys comes last remember? Like u said?…and shes like ow nice guys don't come last…I go why flirt if it doesn't mean ne thing…and shes like I'm attracted to u but wouln't be good dating each other (I thretend to end our friendship AGAIN…and she said give me a year or two to clean up my act and when I move outta home and she would date me (first she says friends is all we are gonna be, then she says she'll do it with me me but not date me, NOW after 5 frikkn years she'll date?…why am I not as enthusiastic ?? hahah she said she really wants to but is scared of my parents cuz my sister wanted to beat her up about the rape accusation thing….this has been driving me insane I can't get her outta my head..she said she wants to visit sometime…what am I to do…I dunno if it's love or obsession but if she DOES like me..she is twisted/insensitive and gets off on pushing peoples buttons to see how much they care….. My sister said the only way is to cut her off, and never speak to her again, don't thretend to end our frienship..just disappear and never speak to her again… she even attmited being scared of being alone all the time, she has loyalty problems/ …. I KNOW she is screwed up girl, but she is so attractive my stupid dick thinks…maybie we can just have a casual relationship…but I mean, this girl is like a bad drug for me…I can't live my life properly...shes always clouding my head…so much anger, heartbreak and tears inside… I told her exactly how shes using me she said I was her best friend can u believe that?..is this girl got some kinda personality disorder/ psychosis? What's the deal? Or is she just a ruthless slattern that has weakness admitting she can't keep her legs closed and blames it on everyone else…. I feel like I'm dying off this girl…I need serious help =( why did I fall for a girl this screwed up…and why did I think she would change? And how do I get over this love for her I'ts been 5 years we hardly ever chat but on the net….i'm hopless….she just seems evil sometimes but at the same time I'm terribly attracted to her..it's like this love/hate thing going on…I need serious guidence =( thank you