I'm new to the forum and hope that it will be a good place to get advice. My fiance and I just broke up due to the fact that I was having a relationship with another man over the phone and internet. I knew that what i was doing was wrong, yet I continued to talk to this person. What happened between him and I was purely emotional, nothing physical (which I know doesn't make this any better). I talked to this person because he was willing to show me attention and treated me nicely. I felt like my fiance didn't really care about me and when I would call I felt I was always bothering him. I'm not sure where my problem stems from, I have a good relationship with my parents and friends, I've done well in other aspects of my life also, however I have always felt self conscious and insecure. Recently I began seeing a counselor. Basically I would like any advice regarding my situation. I don't know what to do about my ex-fiance who wants nothing to do with me anymore, however I know that I want to make things better and be the person he deserves to have.