Jonboy582

He has not given youany reason to distrust him so don't. I have things in a box from my ex. But they are in a box away and I never look at them, just keep them. I could also not be any more inlove with my girlfriend.

What you have to remember is all men are different. And alot of this thing about men loosing respect would be to do with your track record. If you have and if he knows of you doing similar things with other guys that will obviousely bias his decision. But there is no way for sure to know.

I'm sure you've read a lot of the break-up posts here. Look at us miserable folks and keep us in mind before you have the talk. You love her, so do your best to work things out. Distance shouldn't be an issue.

 

Goodluck, I'm rooting for ya.

I was once a poster there and didn't know whether to put this in relationships or break up, was kind of border line. Can't stop worrying about it beive i have abandonment issues and a fear of rejection.

As for working things out, I willl try my best, thanks.

Jon

Yes I will talk to her, not worth letting it bother me, and perhaps escalate in severity.

And thanks you were the only person who replied and your new here

Im pretty sure she does, like if one or two weeks we spend alot of time together, everything is perfect. Just when I get to see her like once a week she seems distant when im with her.

Could this be because she wants to take the relationship further, but the presant lack of contact means she is not sure that she wants to or not? hence her dilema. Would explain when we spend time together things are good and when we don't she questions the relationship.

What do you mean work with me?

And as for driving all the time, it costs a lot of money especially as fuel is so much here in England, but I would rather see her than have money. Although I would like her to come see me, im fine with it, I have to be there no real other alternitive.

Well thing is she don't want me to see her in work, as she hates her uniform but I could always try. Also we live some distance appart so its not so easy seeing each other. I can drive there in 15min but for her to get to me takes just under 2 hours as she doesnt have a car and would need to get a train and a bus and I would have to drive her home anyway. So basically we have made a silent decision I do all the driving and traveling. Grrr this is soo frustrating, she the best thing to happen to me and its getting spoilt by things as petty as travel.

I just received a text from my girlfriend after seeing her today which was most unexpected.

Basically it said, sorry if she made me feel bad, just when we dont see each other much she wonders if we should be together she wants to be with me she loves me, just doesnt feel right when we havnt seen each other much.

I see her as much as possible, just im either at Uni on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and work Saturdays. I would see her after college but she is usually working, and thursdays and fridays she usually works as well. This is hell, I really really want to see her but I can't. And now this text.

Don't know what im expecting you guys to say just anything is cool.

Thanks

Jon

bit of hobbit hair going on. Grr!

As for mouths thats a new one I never heard either.

I've noticed that guys never answer 'breasts" when faced with this question.

 

Is it because they just aren't that exciting? And if so, what is all the hype about? Why is there this commonly accepted notion that they are one of the most sexualised parts of the body?

 

Or is it just that guys are afraid to admit it and sound like neandrathols? (Ok i don't know how to spell that!)

Because its all about the breasts and people get bored about them, always flaunted on TV in papers and magazines after a while its just a breast. Ask me the same question 5 years aggo when I had not been subjected to such material or only on vary rare occasions, and I would have said breasts. But as you mature guess you also appretiate someone for what they are and there other qualities aswell.

Besides in the write way you can do sexy things with breasts, and im sure with hands and feet too as many people have quoted, but I would like to see someone move there breasts independently without moving there body!

Totally depends on the owner of the appendages.

 

I'm into hands.

wow never ever met someone into hands, I can see where your coming from though.

Personaly im a leg man love my gf legs, although breasts are not far behind. Is the buttocks included within the leg section if so 100% legs.

You sure you friend was not trying to rectify these problems you had with your sister?

In my experience, I won't have best friends because others get jealous, and it will hurt more when one betrays you and there will always be a time in your life when this does happen. Also if there is something I want to tell someone I will not tell anyone at all if it can come back to me, hence why I post on this forum, and if I do tell someone I will make sure they have no link to the person i.e. I wont tell anyone who has a friend who knows the person in concern.

As for your friend, I suggest discussing things with her, and in future don't put her in a situation where her interests between two friends conflict.

Jon

It happened to me before except I was the boyfriend

Some of my girlfriends mates tried to set herupp with sum guy the whole night even theough she was happy and with me, I thought it wuite odd and rather offensive on there part as well they just talk to me now like nothing happened.

Why people do it, I dunno.

So... sit back and decide for yourself whether this is a calculated risk you are willing to take because the potential payoff is worth it. If it is... go for it... if it isn't, better to not drag things out. It's not fair to her to not have your heart in something when she does

I think I will just go in with 2 feet and try and not think of the consequences, because at least the I will be more happy for possible ever or atleast until the end of the relationship, and if she doesn't end up feeling the same way and I don't know, atleast ignorance is bliss.

P.S. What's a niggle and how many of those can you eat in one day anyway?

HAHAHA that made me laugh, well either you were being serious and don't know what that is (probably due to you possibly living in the US and it being a British phrase)

 

Well if you don't know it means a small problem, something petty but annoying like you spent time organising your CD collection into alphabetical order (just thought I would add I have never organised anything) but someone has put the CDs back in the wrong place.

 

Erm as for finding something else to worry about, I will start with this annoying (rather large) burn on my arm, where when I went clubbing someone accidentally stubbed their cigarette out on my arm. It's really itchy and starting to blister

Yer I guess so people Im just being silly, its just trying to stop myself being silly that's hard

As for any problems, I am amazed we have not had 1 niggle or anything no arguments just really really happy when I'm with her. But then that makes me worried I hear about people who brake up because everything is too perfect and they don't argue enough then they get bored. Or the fact we are soo similar, it won't be a case of opposites attract.

Also, if I ever think something has been wrong between us or she has feelings for some bloke from the past that's all ended up good as well, what I thought were photos of her and an ex which she didn't want to show at first turned out to be something completely different (a sad story with a friend I will not mention).

At the moment she seems like the perfect girl, all my friends have commented on this as well, there like, "she is soo in to you, when you go out to a club she doesn't even look at other guys" I would not mind really if she did, but that's a HUGE comfort to me as I get paranoid due to things that have happened before.

Another thing she properly opened up to me last night when we were in bed, and it made me really happy (I actually cried a little because she shared a VERY SECRET problem with me, she could actually trust me enough). Was a happy tear but upset for her at the same time, kind of weird.

Look at me sorry I'm going on loads, and I bet almost everyone hasn't bothered to read to the end (I know I would not have hehe)

Hello, not really anything major but this feeling has been bugging me a bit lately.

In my latest relationship, I have found a really really nice girl, who although we haven't been together for ages we have been officially "going out" for 4 months, but been together like 5 and a half.

Well this girl, I love her to bits she is so amazing, and from what I can gather feels the same way about me and she says the cutest things that make me all warm inside, but that's besides the point.

The problem lies, I want to get closer to her, and let my self grow more emotionally attached and to a certain degree I have BUT I know one day even if its 5 years from now something will change and I will end up getting my heart broken and this is pain I don't want to deal with. Then I just end up having conflicting emotions which just gets me down.

I don't really know what I want people to say, just erm wanted to tell someone I guess and get feedback on the situation.

Its because your not over your ex yet. But don't let it get to you, its like the song opened a closed closet, which made memories appear, these memories are emotional and this is what made your cry, i think you envisioned a different future however my advice is to close the closet, like one closes a chapter of a book and start writing new pages of your life.

 

Its ok to love your ex forever, what's important tho is to realise that it is a dead end road. You have moved on, started a new life and you should cherish the good moments of the past, but think of the future and most importantly keep on living today.

 

Its nothing to worry about it'll fade away.

Well I have started a new chapter in my life, I have a new girlfriend, and we have been going out for about 4 months now, who I love and makes me realise how unlucky I was getting with my ex because my current girlfriend is sooo much better in every conceivable way. In fact I haven’t really even thought about or spoken to my ex in a LONG time.

As some of you said, it was bringing back sad memories, I didn't really remember anything, just suddenly went sad and tears came. I have 2 distinct memories of that song one happy, one sad.

1. We were listening to it alot on the way to Alton Towers theme park in the car.

2. I listened to it a lot after we had just broken up and I was all depressed.

mind if i ask what song it was?

Of course not it was "Queen - Play the Game"

Had to listen to the whole album to find which one it was but I knew when I heard it.

Well its odd, I broke up from my ex about 9 months aggo (painfull for me). She has had a new bf I have a new gf who I love, so its not like im not over my ex.

Well weirdest thing happened, I listened to a queen song which I assosiat with me ex, and for some reason became all sad and started crying.

What I was wondering, is why did I cry, I had no reason, and am over my ex so why???

Hey I don't mind. Would prefer her to just "go with the flow" lol.

Well this is during sex. As for toilet stop before, it usually only like 30 min before maybe less, so well she should not need it again.

Erm not trying to flatter myself or anything, but from the incidences it happens, its more likely that she was about to orgasm I would say. As well it occurs usually when she is enjoying it more, and she has gone to the toilet fairley recently prior to the event.

One other thing, someone said certain positions could trigger this. Well it's only happened it bog standard mitionary position, and when she was on top. And cant really see how this would push on her bladder, but im not an expert so would not know.

Thanks for all the replys people.

Jon

Hello there. Just was curious into a matter in my sex life.

Basically, on a frequent basis when having sex with my girlfriend. She stops sex and says she has to go to the toilet. This usually happens when she is enjoying it a lot.

What I want to know is why? Why does this happen? what does she have to go to the toilet

Jon

Go buy them yourself.

 

Why would you blush? Like I tell guys.. Who cares if people look at you while you browse the condom selection. Whats the dude that rings you up going to say.. "Haha, dude, your buying condoms.. How funny."

 

Yeah, it's funny, that your having sex, and he isn't. It's funny your smart enough to use them.

 

There's no shame in buying condoms. None. Grab some lube with them too, and anything else.

 

When I used condoms, I'd buy random funny stuff and find the oldest women to ring me up. I'd get a economy box of 36 condoms, some lube, some peanut butter, marshmellows, chocolate syrup, some wash clothes, some candles, and washing machine detergent.

 

Now tell me I didn't get some looks? It's fun. Don't worry about it!

HAHA thats very funny, and put a brighter outlook on things to me.

I have always got my girlfriend to buy them OR paid very high prices from public toilets or bought them off the internet. I really am not worried now about going into a shop. Although I will stick with trusted sites on theinternet myself, saves me a bundle.

As for your penis size. I personally between ages of 16 and 18 saw no growth in length. But did see growth in girth. And the only thing to do with size that matters above a penis of like 4 inches is the girth really.

hey glad I could have been of service. He is a bloke who sounds very much like me, except im not serbian but we can look past that. Well good luck with him and hope you work out when he gets back.

Indeed that is true. For some odd reason my ex decided to have sex with me not telling me she was on her period, and failing to remove her tampon. So really I just ended shoving that inside her.

Anouther time she had sex with me, and I looked at my penis, and I was like OMG and it was covered in blood. She again did not let me know she was "on".

And now I experienced the bleeding myself.

And as for the bosses daughter, thats a dangerous game