That's been my thing for years. But she kind of turns it against me sometimes, saying I don't care, calls me emotionless and then says "I wish I could be like that, and just not care". I think I have not been very empathetic in the person, just because I didn't used to be too emotionally intelligent, and also I wouldn't cry for just about anything (she's a lot more emotional, cries quite a bit), but I've changed a lot now and I want to help everyone through tough times and I want to be there for her no matter what, and I want to be the best version of myself. In fact, my username, "anbe sivam", translates to "Love is God". I just don't know how to get her to see that I've changed, that I'm not the quiet, unbothered, unemotional person I once was.