It's so hard right now, a roller coaster of emotions. My gf and I had been together for 11 months, though we have spent the last three long distance as she went home for the summer to work. A few days after she saw me the last time, which was a little over a month ago, she sounded so happy with me and told how she loved me SO MUCH, and she sounded so truly sincere, I KNEW she was still totally in love with me. The past month had been a little rocky, we had a couple of arguments, but nothing terrible. Last week she started sounding more upbeat and happy, and last wednesday she sounded really happy with me and her life. Come this monday, I had a little argument with her in the morning cause she was not seeming to be to in a good mood and said she was upset at just stuff right now. She then called me that night and said she wanted to just be friends right now, that she only saw me as a friend right now, that we should see other people and that while she "cared for me, she doesn't know if she still loves me". That very morning before our break up, she said she loved me, now I feel lied to and so confused. Our relationship was not the perfect one, but it was still very good, and I deeply loved her and cared for her. I was there through some of her hardest moments, and she even told me I was the only good thing in her life. I was starting to think that I was starting to get through it and that I would be alright, but then I saw her facebook profile and saw that she is now looking for whatever she can get. That hurt. It brought back the confusion as to how could I have gone from the most important person in her life to someone she doesn't even care that much about. I just don't understand it. I'm trying to do the no contact thing, and that's fine cause I don't really want to talk to her right now anyways, I just am so confused still at how you could go to such polar opposites in such a short time.