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Thanks so much. =3 We already have plans and ways to send money and combined were a little less than half way there, but we both know we can wait. =3 I didn't think of a calling card; I should try that... XD Thanks again so much boudicca! ^_^

Thanks agains Tigris. ^_^ And you know appleberry, I wouldn't have even bothered posting here if I wasn't already very close to him. Besides, I spent over 5 months before we got together as a couple trying to tell myself we could only be friends because of the distance and that if he knew I liked him, he might not want to be my friend anymore. Those 5 months nearly destroyed me because I wouldn't let the way I really felt come out; and to do that now would kill me.

Finally someone is supportive of me. =D Yes, I'm fairly sure they could. If not, I have a fairly big allowance and within a few months I'd have enough to go there myself. =P And my boyfriends saving his money too; so its' not liek I have to save as much since with both of us saving, we could see eachother sooner. =3 And if anyone thinks that maybe he's not who he says he is... I actually know how the minds of stalkers usually work. (I read a book. Whee! XD) If they lived as far away as I do from my boyfriend, they'd lie and say they lived in the city so that it would sound like they could just meet any time they wanted to making someone more likely to let their guard down and go. =o Anyway, thanks Tigris!

You both say almost the exact thing as my friends... one of these friends told me she plans on dating a guy without expecting it to go anywhere; just to date for the hell of dating. I know that when most people say "I love you" half the time it isn' even true love. Usually its only lust. But you can't exactly lust after a person if you can't touch, can you? As I said as well, moving to Australia wouldn't help much if we had said we'd live in the US. And no, I can't really talk to him on the phone; or phone company charges a lot for long distance; we can barely get a call from the next state over. >_> And even before I met him, I doubt I ever would for a LONG time. I don't really have much of a social life; I just don't usually get along with people. The only friends I have i see at school and after that, I'm at home. Hell, even my close friends at school don't take me seriously; when I'm sad they think I'm faking it, when I'm crying, they think I'm trying to be silly and when I tell them I'm serious, they laugh at me. And if I keep my options open, wouldn't that mean being unfaithful? Would you give that advice if he lived only a few states away? Of maybe even a few cities? Besides, I actually DON'T have a lot going for me. If it wasn't for my boyfriend, there's a chance I might not be around today, or atleast I wouldn't be as happy. Most people today I guess can't understand that people CAN experience love at a young age because most teenagers nowadays fake love and everything about it just to get some. >_>

Okay, I met my boyfriend almost a year ago on a Gaming Forum. We started as just good friends but we slowly fell in love with each other. I love him so much and even though we're not even out of high scool (I just entered technically... XD) we already know we want to spend our lives together. We only really have one problem... I live in America. He lives in Australia. A lot of people I know keep telling me things like it won't work and I should "keep my options open" (Which sounds like they want me to cheat on him. o_0) but we already have a lot of issues sorted out like which country we'd live in (The US because I have more family here than he does and he could care less where he lives. XD) and so the only REAL problem we have is money (Why are plane tickets so expensive anyway!?) but we're already working on that. Inshort, I basically want to know... does anyone here know of any proof or experiences that relationships can last through such huge dustances; even the biggest damn ocean on Earth? Alls I've gotten so far is negative feedback and even some teasing from family members... D= I really don't want to lose him...