I have never used one of these discussion boards before, but I am so glad I stumbled accross this one, because now I am not feeling so alone in the world.
My boyfriend tried to hide the porn he had been looking at on the internet by deleting the history files, but he forgot to delete the temporary internet files...and thats how I busted him.
I am so in love with him and cannot imagine life without him ,however,I cannot believe how selfish he is in going and making me feel so inadaquit and sickened. I have been living healthy for 6 months now after verging on annorexia nervosa. Knowing he is lusting after these women in his mind is pushing me back over the edge with this sickness. It makes me feel so horrible inside and so sick to the stomach. It makes me feel so ugly.
When he masturbates to porn he is cheating on me. I support this fact by saying that love is an absolute togetherness of two people, in body as well as in mind. Its when you are connected to him on a completely higher level. So, i believe sleeping with other women in the mind is just as bad as "physically" sleeping with other women.