missjayne

Is cutting a sign of depression?. I have a friend who used to cut while we were in high school and she stopped for about 3yrs. Now over the last few months alot of stuff has happened to her and she's started cutting again. I'm worried she might do something stupid. She's told me that she has cut twice in the last week. I've told her she needs to get help, but i don't know what else to do. Any help please

I'm over the whole thing. He's the one that keeps asking if I miss him and he's the one that keeps saying he misses me. As for offering to take him yes I did, but he didn't want to. Another reason I ended things.

I broke up with my ex the last time I posted here and everything was going good. Until tonight he said he misses me. I told him not to say that, cause it's not true. He said it was. I said yeah you miss the physical side of things the kissing, the touching, the holding one another. I broke up with him cause we just got bored when we were together. He won't leave the issue. He won't let go. We had nothing emotional in the end. Things started out great and then fizzled once we got to the spending time out side of the bedroom together. So I said goodbye. We still chat online nearly everyday it wasn't a bitter split, but yeah it still hurt. And to have him say he misses me really annoys me and I told him so. I can't seem to make him see that we can't go back to the way things were. That it's time to move on and meet new people. For someone who had no emotional feelings for me he seems to be having trouble letting go. I just needed to vent I'm so angry with him right now. He didn't have the right to say that to me. Then say he isn't able to make an effort to take me out and stuff. I didn't expect it all the time, but it would've be nice to go out to dinner or a movie once in a while. Just never happened ](*,)

Thanks. I just feel so alone right now. we left on good terms. I didn't want to cry again, why didn't he just let me go the first time.

Thanks Guys! But I just broke things off for good, so um.... yeah We talked and realised that things just weren't right so I guess, nothing left to say. Thanks again and sorry to have bothered you.

My bf and I split up a couple of weeks ago. He hurt me alot by a few things he said so I told him I never wanted to see him again. Anyways he came round for a chat on the weekend and we've decided we're gonna make another go of things. The only problem is everyone is angry at me because I decided to give him another chance. I was hurt and I made out to be a really bad guy when we split up. Now he's worried that I will constantly be defending him to my family and friends all the time. He's said that it's not fair on me to have to do that. He's also worried that we'll always be thinking and worrying about what everyone else is thinking. And like I've said to him if we're happy then that's all that matters, he said but yeah your not gonna be happy for long if you have to defend me. He keeps saying that he doesn't wanna be the one they blame, but their not. My family and friends understand the desicion I've made and support me despite the fact they're a little angry that I let him treat me the way he did. If it ends in tears this time it's my fault. They understand that. It's gonna take time for him to build up the trust with my family and that again. Eveythings ok at the moment, my family are civil to him. He's not 100% sure. And I'm not ready to lose him yet, I've forgiven him for what happened and we talked things through, things are different this time. How do I reassure him that everything will be ok in time? Thanks missjayne....