About 8 years ago I met one of my husbands ex girlfriends at a group dinner with friends and I felt nothing but daggers coming from her. According to my husband, the relationship was more one sided and he never considered the brief relationship serious in any way. Now, a few of my friends want to go out to a comedy club for a girls night out and would like to include my husbands ex. I have heard that feelings might still be raw for her even after all of this time and I am not quite sure what to do. My hubby thinks the whole thing is silly after all of this time. From what I understand she is jealous of the life and love that my husband and I share. I am not the type of person to rub anything in but, if I don't go out with them, I don't want to appear afraid of the face to face meetining either. If I go, what would be the best way for me to handle this ex where it would not be so uncomfortable for either of us.